Is it normal that i'm not expressive?

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I'm 22 and I'm married.the problem is that my wife complains me not telling her that I love her,that she has to ask me to know it.I love her with all my heart but I don't think that I have to tell her how I feel every time.she says that she feels akward every time that she tells me how she feels and I just tell her that I love her to.I don't think that I don't have to always say how I feel when she already knows.is it normal that I'm not too expressive?

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Based on 36 votes (22 yes)
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  • gardenbug
    13 years ago

    Let her know how much you love her without her dragging it out of you. If you don't she will eventually start resenting you for it and resentment is a mayor cause of divorce. Tell her you love her! It's a lot cheaper than a divorce.

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  • caoraglas
    13 years ago

    tell her you love her obviously!! your married you should say it all the time!

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  • sarcasticnigga
    13 years ago

    Hahahaha thanks.I've been trying to be more expressive lately.it's been good she feels better.but sometimes I feel kind of dumb doing it.thank you guys for your opinion!!!

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    Yeah us women like hearing why you love us every now and then. Just like even if we say we love you a lot throughout the day, it's because we like to tell you and it's nice to hear back. Us women never get tired of hearing how much you love us lol.

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  • Echoes
    13 years ago

    Duuuude! (budlight commercial style)

    This is one of the basics, just like Women 101, where did you grow up? :)

    Save your ass and tell her more often that you truly love her, but don't overdo it though. Keep a good balance.

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    Men and women are different. Women are more attuned to what they hear and often interpret the lack of verbal affection as a sign that your feelings have changed. Men don't really need this.

    However, if you do truly love her and want to make her happy, then it wouldn't hurt to know what she needs and to act on it, even if you don't feel you need it yourself.

    There are two of you in the relationship. If you want to keep it as a relationship, you've got to do what we wants as much as you do what you want.

    And vice versa, of course. Women often do things which drive us men crazy. We're allowed to say something about that too.

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