Meanness doesn't really bother me. I shrug off just about anything. But that doesn't mean I really like it. Of course, it depends on what kind of "meanness" you're talking about.
Someone going "dude, your breath is rank, brush that shit" or "ew, seriously that dress makes you look like a whale" is one kind of meanness that I don't mind that much.
Someone going "you're nothing but a pathetic wetback parasite" and genuinely meaning it (not in a joking way) is a kind of meanness that I *do* mind.
Usually if someone is being mean to a friend I get a lot more upset than if they are mean to me. If someone is mean to my sister I completely lose it. I guess it's all relative.
Is it normal that i'm not bothered by meanness?
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Meanness doesn't really bother me. I shrug off just about anything. But that doesn't mean I really like it. Of course, it depends on what kind of "meanness" you're talking about.
Someone going "dude, your breath is rank, brush that shit" or "ew, seriously that dress makes you look like a whale" is one kind of meanness that I don't mind that much.
Someone going "you're nothing but a pathetic wetback parasite" and genuinely meaning it (not in a joking way) is a kind of meanness that I *do* mind.
Usually if someone is being mean to a friend I get a lot more upset than if they are mean to me. If someone is mean to my sister I completely lose it. I guess it's all relative.