If no physical attraction is there or comes at all, then maybe it's not quite right. But it's so important to be attracted to someone in tons of other ways for a r'ship to work. I think a lot of people actually put too much on physical attraction and kind of expect their 'perfect match' to be EVERYTHING they want them to be. E.g. kind, considerate, funny etc. AND stunningly good looking! Probably not gonna happen. But when you know it's right, you know. And only you honestly know if it's right or not. I do think a lot of people go around thinking they're in love, when they're actually just 'in lust' - and they act 'coupley' and fool themselves. But really, the physical aspect of their relationship is like 80-90% of it. It's an important part, yes, but it shouldn't be what makes the r'ship, in my opinion. Those r'ships are quite shallow and not very meaningful long term. Also, people can become more physically attracted to someone as they become closer to them and more mentally and emotionally connected. Relationships are funny things!
Is it normal that I'm not attracted to my boyfriend?
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If no physical attraction is there or comes at all, then maybe it's not quite right. But it's so important to be attracted to someone in tons of other ways for a r'ship to work. I think a lot of people actually put too much on physical attraction and kind of expect their 'perfect match' to be EVERYTHING they want them to be. E.g. kind, considerate, funny etc. AND stunningly good looking! Probably not gonna happen. But when you know it's right, you know. And only you honestly know if it's right or not. I do think a lot of people go around thinking they're in love, when they're actually just 'in lust' - and they act 'coupley' and fool themselves. But really, the physical aspect of their relationship is like 80-90% of it. It's an important part, yes, but it shouldn't be what makes the r'ship, in my opinion. Those r'ships are quite shallow and not very meaningful long term. Also, people can become more physically attracted to someone as they become closer to them and more mentally and emotionally connected. Relationships are funny things!