but hang on, don't guys have to be sexually attracted to someone then they start to feel an emotional thing and with girls it is the other way around, though I must ask..how do the not so good looking people find someone no offense but like an obese person who doesn't shower and take care of them selves e.c.t?
I don't really know, but if it is, it shouldn't be. I know a guy who says he sometimes feels sexually attracted to girls, but he would only "chase" a girl he had actual feelings for.
There's no such thing as sexual 'feelings', just sexual 'urges'. Either way, though, you get what I meant...Other feelings, like friendship or admiration or whatever.
ohh right, cause I don't understand when a lady might say I have feelings for him..well I take that as sexual because you don't hear someone saying something like 'I have feelings for my friend' if they didn't mean it in a sexual way if you see what I mean..
Is it normal that I'm not attracted to my boyfriend?
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but hang on, don't guys have to be sexually attracted to someone then they start to feel an emotional thing and with girls it is the other way around, though I must ask..how do the not so good looking people find someone no offense but like an obese person who doesn't shower and take care of them selves e.c.t?
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I don't really know, but if it is, it shouldn't be. I know a guy who says he sometimes feels sexually attracted to girls, but he would only "chase" a girl he had actual feelings for.
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doesn't feelings indicate sexual feelings..? O.o
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There's no such thing as sexual 'feelings', just sexual 'urges'. Either way, though, you get what I meant...Other feelings, like friendship or admiration or whatever.
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ohh right, cause I don't understand when a lady might say I have feelings for him..well I take that as sexual because you don't hear someone saying something like 'I have feelings for my friend' if they didn't mean it in a sexual way if you see what I mean..
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Yeah, I get it, but romantic feelings, at least to me, are just upgraded friendship, and sexual urges are different from romantic feelings.
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though with romantic feelings comes the sexual side so I slightly disagree.