To be honest, I don't want to send her to any sort of elder care/convalescent home if I can help it. It's quite a depressing place there, but I don't know what the future holds.
And she's not that old yet -- she's only 50 something and is still able to do plenty of things on her own.
Please keep this in mind:
You are at a stage in your relationship with your mom where the roles are reversing.
You still see yourself as the daughter, and your mom still sees you as your mother. You will need to take charge of the situation soon. You will need to recognize that you are now in the mother role and you will have to treat your mom as if she is your daughter.
Is it normal that I'm not allowed to move out at 25 years old?
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To be honest, I don't want to send her to any sort of elder care/convalescent home if I can help it. It's quite a depressing place there, but I don't know what the future holds.
And she's not that old yet -- she's only 50 something and is still able to do plenty of things on her own.
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Please keep this in mind:
You are at a stage in your relationship with your mom where the roles are reversing.
You still see yourself as the daughter, and your mom still sees you as your mother. You will need to take charge of the situation soon. You will need to recognize that you are now in the mother role and you will have to treat your mom as if she is your daughter.