Is it normal that i'm not a sex freak like every other guy out there?

Its a show to either hide their homosexuality or lack of intelligence. I hate guy talk too, I would rather talk about real things than have a bunch dudes talk about how they would sleep with the girl behind the counter even though we both know that that his wife beats him like a whipped puppy or he's a obvious closet homosexual.

They're the worst people trying to skate by with the bare minimum in life. They don't read so talk about UFC, Nascar, Beer, Tools, Guns, you know stuff that would only appeal to closet homosexual or 13 year old boy.

ye its normal i dont like girls jus for sex but then again i hardly like em atall lol anyway i wouldnt even imagine having sex with todays version or "hot" there all tanned and make up its so anoying lol

The world needs more guys like u!

Ladies listen up! The reason there are no more guys like this guy right here is because you fuck the guys that are all about sex and blow off the "feeling's" guys

You just think like a really sweet guy.
Any girl to get you is very lucky :)

Wow. I love boobs, and butts. I'm a completely normal guy. I don't abuse women or think of them as objects. That's normal. I love my girlfriend, for her personality and body as well. Not every guy is a dick just because he has sexual preferences or likes to talk about them.

As for the question, please understand that a lot of what you hear your friends saying is just guy talk. Your friends are all trying to prove themselves to each other. Young men especially talk this way because they are not sure yet what makes them masculine. Being masculine is not, by the way, objectifying women. I think it has become popular to degrade women as nothing but a body in our culture and younger people are more likely to believe that stereotypes are what they should strive to be like. At the end of the day, your friends that talk of nothing but boobs are probably asking themselves the same questions you are asking here. They just care more about fitting in. Fitting in is for the weak-willed. It's ok to look at the opposite sex and say you are attracted but there is no need to cross the line into degrading/mean. Stay the way you are and realize that you are a normal multi-dimensional person with desires/needs beyond the superficial. You're more normal than those kids that say they only like girls based on boob size because they are not only lying to you but if they truly do choose girls based on that, they are lying to themselves that they are not better than that.

babag: women with larger breasts or hips are not more fertile or better child bearers. Those studies are so one-sided and base "facts" on mere speculation. Those studies show more a cultural ideal. There are studies on everything these days, slanted to prove whomever's point wants to be proved. I also like how you say "men who you women are not good, and the women that use men are sluts." You sound very immature and sexist.

I love this sort of talk from a guy-you are what us girls call a "real gentleman"! Good on ya, dont think like other guys do and ruin yourself!

I know right? I feel the exact same way:D Ive been called gay for it even though most guys just gang around with other guys mean while most of my friends are female. Were rare breeds you and I so don't ever change Hun:)

U'r good guy, keep it up ;)

awwwww u r such a sweet heart!
it is very normal. no, ur not gay; u just dont like thinking about girls in a sexual way. u like girls for their personalities, but a nice body would be good too. ur a sweet boy and i wish every guy was like you!

OK I'm sorry but all these people commenting all these "girls" must be blind + you to bud (personally I feal the same wAy you do) but you hav too consider the fact that Allllll the guys are talking about and u know what peer pressure is? Well, that might come into play. and to you girls out there u want to find a nice guy? 1. Clothing( don't purposely dress to look seductive !! 2. Look 0.o maybe talk to the guy? Like just talk feel free to ask what he thinks about things like that (if a girl asked me I would tell her and I would respect her even morefor it) a guy who has those morals will not be afraid to tell you. 3. MAJOR TURNOFF ALeRT don't be overly flirty win many guys it's not a problem of him bein insecure it's a problem off you not respecting him! This only realy applies if he knows you are interested in having a relationship. Wow sry I'm tired have no idea I'd anything I have said makes sense hope it will any qwestions comment just ask

What is so wrong with a man talking about sex and breasts and beer?
Women constantly talk about girly things and nobody dislikes them for it, that's the way they are.

Women that say they like men to be "real gentlemen" are really saying they like somebody they can control and change.
It happens all the time, just ask your father.

I totally agree. Guys use girls as objects of pleasure sometimes

U r my new hero!!!!

Most guys AREN'T like that. God. It pisses me of when people assume all guys are like that. Guys are naturally attracted to breasts and butts. There have been studies that show that women with larger greats and hips are more fertile and better child bearers. So men being attracted to these is normal as well! Men who use women only as objects are not good but there are many women who do the same to men. They are called sluts. It's normal to be attracted to personalities and it's normal to be attracted to bodies but you are wrong when you say most guys only want the bodies and get girls based on bra size, that's bogus unless you're a dick.

I agree with ya man! And its nice to know im not alone out there!!

We need more guys like you :)

I'm thinking you should marry me, now.

Not it's not normal but it can be fixed. Having known some guys like you before as with them I bet you are suffering from low testosteroine. It's only natural for guys to want girls like this. It takes a while for guys to figure out that looks aren't everything.

Oh God, marry me.
WHY AREN'T THERE MORE GUYS LIKE YOU.
//sobs

i don't see what one has to do with the other. how does being interested and sharing in your girlfriends interests devalue the sex u can share? if anything being so in love and in tune with eachother should only enhance the sexual aspect of your relationship right? how often do you have sex? does your gf share your views on the subject? i have a boyfriend who would much rather play video games for hours on end than do it to it. i find it unnerving that i have a boyfiend and am sexually frustrated but atleast u are sharing interests and what not but if i were u i'd be sure that one of her interests isn't having frequent sex ;)

who says all guys are sex freaks.

triggers that make me fall in love:
-an intelligent girl
-someone who is nice
-loveing

I suddenly find you irresistible and very attractive. Keep it up.

Im the same way, their body isn't the world, there's also personality, and alot of other things, keep it up, alot of women respect guys who don't think about there boobs all the time.

good on yah, at least i'm not the only one who thinks like this.

I wish there were more guys like you out there wanna go out? Lmfao

Thanks for the comments guys. :)
Oh, and 'peanutgizmo', thanks for that reply, I was about to do a similar one, but my lazyness got in my way haha, but yea, that's pretty much it.

will you marry me? :D

But talking about it is half the fun!

i see ur point there some dudes are a bit too much...i think it's got something to do with being insecure,i enjoy "knowing" the one i'm with what there about how they think,doing all kinds of things..ect,don't get me wrong i LOVE to play..but i keep that stuff "private"..between me n her..

Awwww

totaly normal :P

Awwh (:
At least theirs one guy out there that doesn't always think about sex (:
Good for you for having good morals. I wish there we're more of you. Haha