Disclaimer: I'm an atheist and don't have much experience with religion.
I believe in freedom of religion, and I think it's okay to follow or not follow any faith, as long as it doesn't harm others. Your family shouldn't be pressuring you into going to church, or telling you that you'll go to hell for not listening to them, especially now that you're old enough to be making your own decisions. People can be very stubborn about their beliefs, and your family probably just wants what they think is best for you - so don't be too hard on them. However, know that you're not obliged to follow their beliefs.
Maybe try to reconsider your views outside the influence of your family. Also, remember that not all Christians are toxic / cult-like.
You can try visiting the subreddit exchristian (https://www.reddit.com/r/exchristian/). There are a lot of people like you there facing familial pressure and not knowing what to do or believe in. They might give better advice.
Is it normal that I'm not a Christian?
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Disclaimer: I'm an atheist and don't have much experience with religion.
I believe in freedom of religion, and I think it's okay to follow or not follow any faith, as long as it doesn't harm others. Your family shouldn't be pressuring you into going to church, or telling you that you'll go to hell for not listening to them, especially now that you're old enough to be making your own decisions. People can be very stubborn about their beliefs, and your family probably just wants what they think is best for you - so don't be too hard on them. However, know that you're not obliged to follow their beliefs.
Maybe try to reconsider your views outside the influence of your family. Also, remember that not all Christians are toxic / cult-like.
You can try visiting the subreddit exchristian (https://www.reddit.com/r/exchristian/). There are a lot of people like you there facing familial pressure and not knowing what to do or believe in. They might give better advice.