It is normal to feel angry, yes. They have not reacted in a very Christian way, in my view.
What Scripture says that it is before God that every individual stands or falls, so it is up to you how you live and what you believe.
Different people go through different stages of development. Faith doesn't always look the same. Going to church and praying and 'trying to be a good person' are not rituals for me; they're just things that make sense because I want regular contact with God and with people who love him, and I want to do what he loves. But if at any point that becomes less important to me, my church attendance slides... what normally brings me back is that I love being at peace with God and I don't feel okay if I am not in tune with him. I imagine this is normal for most Christians who are not Christians because their family told them to be. How you act is simply an indication of what's important to you.
I feel that your family and community are right to be concerned about the judgment that is coming on sin. If people don't want to pray or go to church that can be a sign that their commitment to God is weakening. It can be concerning, when you love someone and you want them to be at peace with God, and to have a good relationship with him. God reaches out to people in Jesus precisely to spare them hell and help them to live more fully now, and with him in eternity later. Of course they would be worried if they thought you might abandon him.
But they shouldn't use hell to threaten or shame you. They shouldn't make out that you are more wicked than any other person. It just isn't true, and this way of reacting isn't worthy of the name of Christ. It is no wonder you want to distance yourself from them - many people would.
If you're new here, you may not know but there have been threads of late that have been less than respectful towards God and those who believe in him, asking people why they believe then blanket labeling them 'stupid' and 'idiot' when they gave their reasons... People use this site to vent and they are not always very gentle. I don't think you will find the support you need here.
I urge you to speak to Christians maybe outside of your family and church circle. There are Christians that can provide a healthier (and less cult-like) spiritual perspective on your question than that of your family and home, which sounds unhealthy to me. I am an Anglican (post evangelical) and have recently had the joy of getting to know some Catholics and Orthodox Christians where I work. Their perspectives on Christ are refreshing.
Is it normal that I'm not a Christian?
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It is normal to feel angry, yes. They have not reacted in a very Christian way, in my view.
What Scripture says that it is before God that every individual stands or falls, so it is up to you how you live and what you believe.
Different people go through different stages of development. Faith doesn't always look the same. Going to church and praying and 'trying to be a good person' are not rituals for me; they're just things that make sense because I want regular contact with God and with people who love him, and I want to do what he loves. But if at any point that becomes less important to me, my church attendance slides... what normally brings me back is that I love being at peace with God and I don't feel okay if I am not in tune with him. I imagine this is normal for most Christians who are not Christians because their family told them to be. How you act is simply an indication of what's important to you.
I feel that your family and community are right to be concerned about the judgment that is coming on sin. If people don't want to pray or go to church that can be a sign that their commitment to God is weakening. It can be concerning, when you love someone and you want them to be at peace with God, and to have a good relationship with him. God reaches out to people in Jesus precisely to spare them hell and help them to live more fully now, and with him in eternity later. Of course they would be worried if they thought you might abandon him.
But they shouldn't use hell to threaten or shame you. They shouldn't make out that you are more wicked than any other person. It just isn't true, and this way of reacting isn't worthy of the name of Christ. It is no wonder you want to distance yourself from them - many people would.
If you're new here, you may not know but there have been threads of late that have been less than respectful towards God and those who believe in him, asking people why they believe then blanket labeling them 'stupid' and 'idiot' when they gave their reasons... People use this site to vent and they are not always very gentle. I don't think you will find the support you need here.
I urge you to speak to Christians maybe outside of your family and church circle. There are Christians that can provide a healthier (and less cult-like) spiritual perspective on your question than that of your family and home, which sounds unhealthy to me. I am an Anglican (post evangelical) and have recently had the joy of getting to know some Catholics and Orthodox Christians where I work. Their perspectives on Christ are refreshing.
All the best.