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I have been married for 4 1/2 years and have two kids. I am extremely blessed and have a fantastic husband. However, I still long to be with my ex. We have remained friends even after we split up. I find myself thinking about him almost daily still. Is this normal? How do I get it to stop?
Not normal and not good. Just when you start thinking about him either pray, or remember the reasons you left him.
Maybe your ex still wanted you? If marriage is forever who are you really married to? Do you fantasize about your ex sexually?
Sounds complicated. If you have to ask that question to a million strangers then you are trying to justify your action or inaction. For the sake of your spouse and children you need to get this in check ASAP! Particularly if this "ex" is still in your life. If you don't get over it or geton with it you are being selfish and will only cause further problems within your marriage. Just remember that, in fact, the grads is always greener on the other side of the fence.
i am spose to be getting married within the next and i to am always thinking of my ex. he was my first and we shared a very special bond. i have not seen him in over 2 years but yet every now and then i really miss him and wish i could be with him again. the man i am marrying is an amazing person but we dont connect as deeply as me and my ex did.
so guess i dont have an answer for you sorry, but hope someone can help you as this may help me too.