Is it normal that i'm losing my boyfriend to depression and anxiety

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Hi there, i just made this account a few minutes ago coz of an issue that has been on my mind alot lately...

My boyfriend and i have been going out for a few months now but despite that we love eachother so much. Up until now things have been so easy and fun with him, easy going i guess you could call it. We weren't just lovers we were also really great friends and had so much fun together but lately it feels like i can't talk to him and i'm just not happy even though i just want to laugh and have fun with him but i can't because of this constant sadness and fear that i might say the wrong thing and he'll break up with me...basically just always worrying and i think i keep coming to the conclusion that i'll just screw up when i talk to him so i just give up but i still love him so much i just can't talk to him...:( i don't want him to break-up with me...i just don't know how to fix this. HELP! What do i do?!?!

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  • Kcspahr173
    11 years ago | pl

    Yes it is so normal to have those feelings for your boyfriend, as a fellow guy, I would want you to talk to me about everything and not be scared. If he really loves you he won't judge you. My girl friend , well my Ex had the same problems. And we got over it fine, but sadly we broke up for other reasons lol but keep your head up ! You'll be ok !

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  • Ms.Prinia
    9 years ago | pl

    First off I hope that your being treated for you depression it'd just lack of communication is definitely going to put a strain on your relationship for sure it's happening to me now so it will probably start with tension, just fix it girl if you love him like you say you do and he loves you he won't leave you because of it.

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  • karmasAbich
    11 years ago | pl

    Don't over think things.
    It's normal.
    Negative thoughts create negative actions.
    I've said this a few times on this site:
    For every action there is an opposite reaction. What i mean by that is, every action you take over-analysing the situation at hand, it will cause an opposite reaction. I think it would be best to be casual as possible and not worry. It will benefit you more than you recognize. :)

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago | pl

    Hopefully you are not in a relationship that is so unstable that he WOULD break up with you over something as petty as you having negative emotions. If your relationship is anything more than superficial than you would benefit best from speaking to him about this.

    I vote normal.

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  • Faceless
    11 years ago | pl

    Yeah! Dont talk to us about it, talk to him. Maybe hes so distant is that you talk to complete strangers asking for help instead of people in the flesh.

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