Is it normal that I'm jealous of my crush's BFF?

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  • Yes that's normal. Guys can always sense when you're attracted to to them, and they always feel the same way. He's deeply in love with you, but just hasn't admitted it to himself yet.
    To show him how much you love him, I suggest you start being more assertive. Let his BFF know that she's crossing a line. Maybe key her car or phone her fifteen times in the middle of the night and hang up as soon as she answers. Your true love will definitely be touched by your devotion.
    If he still hasn't admitted to himself that you were made for each other, turn your room into a shrine dedicated to him. Secretly take hundreds of photographs of him and put them on your walls. Steal some of his underwear - guys think that's really hot. When you show him your shrine he will be moved to tears by the depth of your devotion, and will have no choice but to admit his undying love for you.
    Don't be at all discouraged by a restraining order - it's just his way of testing the depth of your love.

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    • Sorry, I've just re-read your question and saw that all parties mentioned were girls. I did not realise that you were a lesbian, and I'm sorry if I caused offence. I am not in any way a homophobe.

      However my original point still stands. Somewhere inside her there is a yearning for you - her subconscious mind knows you love her. In fact, this is more understandable than if your crush was a guy. She is afraid to come out of the closet and declare her love for you, but she is unconsciously trying to let you know, and unintentionally making you jealous.

      Don't be afraid to make your own feelings known. The more you undermine, insult or threaten her BFF, the sooner she'll realise her true feelings and come out of the closet to be with you. Or try to help her along by gaining access to her Facebook account and signing her up to lesbian groups and fan pages, and changing her relationship status to "in a relationship with you."

      As to my advice about stealing underwear, you should instead secretly swap underwear with her. Put your dirty panties and bras in her room to get her used to your scent. Olfaction is the most emotively powerful of the five senses, and your unique feminine scent will definitely arouse her passion for you.

      Don't let anything hold you back!

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      • It's ok I'm actually bisexual so I like both. xD Well thanks for the advice AGAIN! :D I really appreciate it. ^-^

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    • This is the first time I've actually LOL'd in a long time and for that I thank you kindly.

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    • +1, WIN.

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    • Thank you for the advice! ^-^

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