I tend to agree with ^^^ in that the real thing is - well - real, versus an on-line relationship which is a little contrived. But my point is different.
What it mainly says is this: you don't want a mutually exclusive relationship at this time.
And why should you have to? You aren't married.
You can have more than one bf (or gf) if you want to. You are dating, and haven't reached a point (may never) that you've found or settled for the "one."
The key here is to be honest to yourself and to your partners.
It is only fair that they know that while you consider them a bf, you do see other bf's because you enjoy dating and are not interested at the moment (or perhaps ever) in settling for any one person.
To be acting as if a relationship is exclusive when it is not is a lie and will create hurt.
Your choice isn't about or between 2 boys - its about where you are at in your romantic relationships. And I'd say, you probably want to circulate more. If so, just be honest about it.
Is it normal that I'm in love with two guys?
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I tend to agree with ^^^ in that the real thing is - well - real, versus an on-line relationship which is a little contrived. But my point is different.
What it mainly says is this: you don't want a mutually exclusive relationship at this time.
And why should you have to? You aren't married.
You can have more than one bf (or gf) if you want to. You are dating, and haven't reached a point (may never) that you've found or settled for the "one."
The key here is to be honest to yourself and to your partners.
It is only fair that they know that while you consider them a bf, you do see other bf's because you enjoy dating and are not interested at the moment (or perhaps ever) in settling for any one person.
To be acting as if a relationship is exclusive when it is not is a lie and will create hurt.
Your choice isn't about or between 2 boys - its about where you are at in your romantic relationships. And I'd say, you probably want to circulate more. If so, just be honest about it.