Is it normal that i'm in love with two guys?

Let me guess Edward and Jacob....

You're in love with the idea and the mystery of what being with the other person might be like. I say if you're happy with your boyfriend, stay with him and get over the other guy. Let sleeping dogs lie.

You are in-love with your bf but you are not in-love with your online friend. Your online friend is just an infatuation someone you like to hang out with that makes you feel good about yourself and has some things in common :)

I my opinion treat your friend like a friend because then things might get complicated and you might end up with a broken heart and end up in a situation you were not expecting.

and Enjoy your BF! he is more real in your world than your online friend is :)

gl

online?
are you kidding me? you guys havent met yet

Hannah I hope you are kidding because that type of behavior sets all other women back because people assume that all women will the same type of things

"NoTaNiCeGiRl" gave a longer reply then I did- and she was right. My girlfriend and I were together for nearly nine months before she died of cancer, but for nine months I made and kept my commitment to her. If your boyfriend doesn't know, he should. But you also need to tell him that you're interested in this guy, and let the boyfriend decide if he still wants to be in a relationship wit you.

Im not really in love with two guys, but I have slept with two guys at the same time, both of them thinking I was exclusive. Not to mention one of them had just found out he got his last gf pregnant. So it is really hard to be slutty like me, but its fun to play with mens emotions and use them to buy you things like alcohol and their apartment since i dont have a lot its easier to use men to get what i want.

I agree with the above you are not in love with a man that you have never met and it you are still quite young who says that you must be in an exclusive relationship anyway ? BUT if your boyfriend thinks that he is the only one you are being dishonest. Sometimes I don't think that people really understand the idea of a committed relationship anymore. When you make a commitment to someone what you are basically saying is that "I have decided that you are the person that I want to share my life with, I know that at some point I will probably meet someone else that will be younger\hotter\fitter\smarter but in that eventuality I will honor the commitment we have made to each other and remove myself from temptation and let others know that I am not single or looking" I know that the above does not sound very romantic but that's just how it is or how it should be

Before making any serious irreversible decisions, you might wanna actually MEET this dude you're "in love with". He could turn out to be a fifty year old pervert and you're left single.

I tend to agree with ^^^ in that the real thing is - well - real, versus an on-line relationship which is a little contrived. But my point is different.

What it mainly says is this: you don't want a mutually exclusive relationship at this time.

And why should you have to? You aren't married.

You can have more than one bf (or gf) if you want to. You are dating, and haven't reached a point (may never) that you've found or settled for the "one."

The key here is to be honest to yourself and to your partners.

It is only fair that they know that while you consider them a bf, you do see other bf's because you enjoy dating and are not interested at the moment (or perhaps ever) in settling for any one person.

To be acting as if a relationship is exclusive when it is not is a lie and will create hurt.

Your choice isn't about or between 2 boys - its about where you are at in your romantic relationships. And I'd say, you probably want to circulate more. If so, just be honest about it.