Is it normal that i'm in love with my younger stepbrother?

I met my younger stepbrother in my teens and he's not much younger than me, he was in his teens when we met too. But I was obsessed with him for like 6 years til he broke my heart. We almost got caught kissing one time (prior to him admitting he liked me) and I got in huge trouble since i am the older one. He stopped talking to me after I rejected him wanting to lose it to me. Is it normal that he wanted sex and do you really think he just wanted sex? Also we don't live together and I won't see him for another year at least, what should I do? Is it normal to like him and does he deserve another chance? How should I act when I see him again?
By the way, our parents never had children together, but we do have separate siblings and my stepsister doesn't seem to like me, I think she knows what's going on between us

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  • Don't go there.

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  • That sounds like what happend to me but we didn't get caught and you should give him another chance just enjoy sex is the best

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  • Since y'all arnt related but step related you should have sex with him but go somewhere else I mean stepbrothers and step sisters have sex all the time I have and there's nothing wrong with it it's actually fun I love it but that's me

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  • It's not negative criticism... He's your brother.. Even if your not blood related it can still get messy. If your not going to see him for another year, just try move on with your life an find some one else.

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  • I need advice, not negative criticism.

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  • Thanks:) but i've tried to get over him by going further than i usually do with guys but it just feels empty; i only think of him, especially the more i do.and i tried tAlking to him because he lives in another state but he didnt respond.i think he has moved on but i haven't been able to.as stupid and crazy as it may sound, im in love with him and i can't control it. You cannot control who you fall in love with. The worst part is that i recently lost it to a guy i tried to replace him with and i'm scared i may be pregnant and i don't even love the guy becuz i love my stepbrother and we're not blood so he's just like any other guy

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    • Besides, you're talking about a LEGAL relationship.

      There will be some who have a knee-jerk reaction of "OMG you're going to burn in hell" but... that's stupid.

      1) You're NOT blood related
      2) You're not even adopted-related

      The ONLY "relation" you have is that one of your parents married one of his parents after you both were born.

      So go, enjoy your romance. Love as thou wilt.

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  • Stepbrothers and sisters have sex all the time and can get married. No big deal. Talk to him and see how he feels.

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