Having relationships doesn't always mean that they are dating though. You hear a lot about teachers having sexual relations whether its rape or with consent. But are they really serious about the relationship? For the male teachers, do they really love the student or do they just like the idea that they are so much younger than they are? It is not uncommon for a middle age male teacher to enjoy the idea of being with an 18 year old girl.
On the original point I think it's best to not pursue this. I'm not saying that age is an issue in the way that you should stick to people your own age but in the way that realistically, I think there exists a barrier of different interests and the way you live your life. I doubt you would share many interests and hobbies or understand each other at the same level. You'll be out of class earlier, playing and living out your youth while he gets off work a bit later and has papers to grade and lessons to plan. If you decide to pursue this feeling, just be sure to make the right choices. If you are inexperienced in relationships, just do what feels right. As in every relationship, don't feel pressured to do anything you don't want to.
Is it normal that I'm in love with my teacher who's 27 years older?
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Having relationships doesn't always mean that they are dating though. You hear a lot about teachers having sexual relations whether its rape or with consent. But are they really serious about the relationship? For the male teachers, do they really love the student or do they just like the idea that they are so much younger than they are? It is not uncommon for a middle age male teacher to enjoy the idea of being with an 18 year old girl.
On the original point I think it's best to not pursue this. I'm not saying that age is an issue in the way that you should stick to people your own age but in the way that realistically, I think there exists a barrier of different interests and the way you live your life. I doubt you would share many interests and hobbies or understand each other at the same level. You'll be out of class earlier, playing and living out your youth while he gets off work a bit later and has papers to grade and lessons to plan. If you decide to pursue this feeling, just be sure to make the right choices. If you are inexperienced in relationships, just do what feels right. As in every relationship, don't feel pressured to do anything you don't want to.