What is with all these female students constantly thinking their male teachers want to be with them?
Ladies, understand. They're being friendly teachers. They don't want you, they don't want a relationship with you. You want them, so you think that means that any positivity they bring to you, in your mind, is them trying to lead you in to a relationship area.
Having relationships doesn't always mean that they are dating though. You hear a lot about teachers having sexual relations whether its rape or with consent. But are they really serious about the relationship? For the male teachers, do they really love the student or do they just like the idea that they are so much younger than they are? It is not uncommon for a middle age male teacher to enjoy the idea of being with an 18 year old girl.
On the original point I think it's best to not pursue this. I'm not saying that age is an issue in the way that you should stick to people your own age but in the way that realistically, I think there exists a barrier of different interests and the way you live your life. I doubt you would share many interests and hobbies or understand each other at the same level. You'll be out of class earlier, playing and living out your youth while he gets off work a bit later and has papers to grade and lessons to plan. If you decide to pursue this feeling, just be sure to make the right choices. If you are inexperienced in relationships, just do what feels right. As in every relationship, don't feel pressured to do anything you don't want to.
No thats waaaaaaaayyyyyyy less common. The number of male teachers compared to female ones charged for these crimes is 10/1. Though yeah, there are certainly female ones.
Not a lot. They point them out when one does happen, so it seems like it happens a lot, but compared to the majority of male teachers, not many actually do.
Well, there actually isn't anything against teachers being with students in the eyes of the criminal justice department, unless sexual activity is involved. They can be fired from their job, though.
I still don't think it happens. There are more females that think their teacher "likes" them that there are actual teachers that "like" their students.
Is it normal that I'm in love with my teacher who's 27 years older?
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What is with all these female students constantly thinking their male teachers want to be with them?
Ladies, understand. They're being friendly teachers. They don't want you, they don't want a relationship with you. You want them, so you think that means that any positivity they bring to you, in your mind, is them trying to lead you in to a relationship area.
He doesn't want you, you want him.
Grow up, ladies.
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Except that alot of male teachers get done for having relationships with students lol. It's in the papers all the time.
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Having relationships doesn't always mean that they are dating though. You hear a lot about teachers having sexual relations whether its rape or with consent. But are they really serious about the relationship? For the male teachers, do they really love the student or do they just like the idea that they are so much younger than they are? It is not uncommon for a middle age male teacher to enjoy the idea of being with an 18 year old girl.
On the original point I think it's best to not pursue this. I'm not saying that age is an issue in the way that you should stick to people your own age but in the way that realistically, I think there exists a barrier of different interests and the way you live your life. I doubt you would share many interests and hobbies or understand each other at the same level. You'll be out of class earlier, playing and living out your youth while he gets off work a bit later and has papers to grade and lessons to plan. If you decide to pursue this feeling, just be sure to make the right choices. If you are inexperienced in relationships, just do what feels right. As in every relationship, don't feel pressured to do anything you don't want to.
Really? I always noticed it was females opposed to males
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No thats waaaaaaaayyyyyyy less common. The number of male teachers compared to female ones charged for these crimes is 10/1. Though yeah, there are certainly female ones.
Not a lot. They point them out when one does happen, so it seems like it happens a lot, but compared to the majority of male teachers, not many actually do.
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Compared to the fact it shouldn't happen at all, it happens alot.
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Well, there actually isn't anything against teachers being with students in the eyes of the criminal justice department, unless sexual activity is involved. They can be fired from their job, though.
I still don't think it happens. There are more females that think their teacher "likes" them that there are actual teachers that "like" their students.
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Unless sexual activity is involved, you're not really with someone. If there is none you're just friends. So yeah a relationship is illegal.
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Well, I disagree. There are couples that don't agree to sex until married, and they live together in a relationship, do things couples do, etc.