Your fiance deserves better. You want to marry this man, do it for the right reasons not the wrong ones. The guy expecting you to wait in the wings is playing a head game. Don't fall into it. Examine your heart. Talk to your fiance. If you were cheating on him with this man, you aren't giving him any reason to trust you. I have made my share of mistakes, but I had to learn from that one. I felt like an idiot. So wish this guy well, and move on. The feelings won't go away overnight, but they will go away in time. In the meantime if your fiance is a good man, recognize it, tell him so. Tell him thank you, I appreciate you. Tell him I love you. And don't waste energy being jealous of his past. He can't change it. But be smart and learn from this. You will be happier in the long run.
IIN that I'm in love w/ a married man and about to marry someone else?
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Your fiance deserves better. You want to marry this man, do it for the right reasons not the wrong ones. The guy expecting you to wait in the wings is playing a head game. Don't fall into it. Examine your heart. Talk to your fiance. If you were cheating on him with this man, you aren't giving him any reason to trust you. I have made my share of mistakes, but I had to learn from that one. I felt like an idiot. So wish this guy well, and move on. The feelings won't go away overnight, but they will go away in time. In the meantime if your fiance is a good man, recognize it, tell him so. Tell him thank you, I appreciate you. Tell him I love you. And don't waste energy being jealous of his past. He can't change it. But be smart and learn from this. You will be happier in the long run.