Is it normal that i'm in a relationship with a guy 32 years older than me?

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Hey guys,

So I've been dating this man for over a year now, and we're in love with each other. The "problem" is - He's 62 and I'm 30!
When we first started, I had reservations about the age difference. But he treats me with so much love and respect, like no other guy ever has. I trust him completely and he trusts me too. We plan on moving in soon and are excited to build a home together. We did have our share of awkward situations; like him introducing me to his son who's a few years older then me; and strangers confusing him for my father.
Sometimes I worry about the fact that we're both at different points in our lives. He's about to retire and I'm just beginning my career. But I don't let that bother me much because I love him with all my heart.

Just a disclaimer: he's NOT my sugar daddy. We both make over six figures and are financially secure and independent.

Disclaimer #2: This is a gay relationship :)

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Comments ( 18 )
  • Murun
    6 years ago

    Age gaps are no problem if both parties are happy. Same whether homosexual or heterosexual.

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  • Yennifer_Of_Vengerburg
    6 years ago

    Its all good, if your happy don't worrie about it no harm done.

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    he is retiring ? from what life ? i have not clocked in in ten years but im far from retired i want at least two companies to create jobs otherwise i failed to live up to my potential. all others can just go own a pet i guess.

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  • hazydusk
    6 years ago

    It's completely normal! My partner is 23 years older than me, and I couldn't be happier. You can't help who you're attracted to, and as long as he makes you happy, it shouldn't matter what other people think.

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  • smkcer
    6 years ago

    really really wow how what???/

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    Love is love. Don't worry about the age difference.

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  • yasss
    6 years ago

    If you're both both happy and consenting, then who cares! It's your business. Hope you live a happy life together!

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  • Freedom_
    6 years ago

    You sound genuinely happy and that's what matters most. Also, it seems like a larger age gap is quite common in homosexual relationships.

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    • stelat2010
      6 years ago

      Interesting observation! I noticed same when I used to go out and be part of the scene. Thanks for your kind words.

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  • manwiththegreengloves
    6 years ago

    You're his catamite bitch.

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    • stelat2010
      6 years ago

      How insightful and eloquent. Impressive

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      • manwiththegreengloves
        6 years ago

        Says the catamite. Tell us all about bug chasers and gift givers.

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        • stelat2010
          6 years ago

          Id rather not... You seem like an intelligent individual. Don't want you wasting your precious time reading some nonsense

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  • barrysbigbeanbag
    6 years ago

    Your fucking sick in the head!

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    • stelat2010
      6 years ago

      Thanks for your reply but I don't understand what you meant. Did you mean to write "you're"?

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      • barrysbigbeanbag
        6 years ago

        You sick fuck!

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  • slim67
    6 years ago

    You have daddy issues. But hey, if you are happy who cares.

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    • stelat2010
      6 years ago

      Thanks :)

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