Is it normal that i'm in a relationship but wanna experiment...

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Here's my story, I'm in a very committed, straight relationship. But I really want to venture out and experiment with a girl. I'm up for anything and everything. I just don't know what it means? I love my boyfriend but I need to spice up my life a bit. I feel that an experienced girl would do me some good. But I feel scared there's nobody out there willing to give it a go. Please help!!

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago | pl

    Not while you are in a relationship. Having relations with another person is cheating.

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    • Lynxikat
      11 years ago

      This.

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    • IronHead
      11 years ago

      Unless the parameters of a particular relationship allow for sex with other people.

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    Talk about it with your boyfriend if you think that he is open-minded.

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  • Antir0b0t
    11 years ago

    I feel the same way, the curious-ness you describe. However, I love my bf and want to marry him and be with him forever and ever and ever aaaaand ever. (<<Mosts ands ever in a sentence.)

    So you probably shouldn't act on these feelings if you care about your significant other.

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  • upset_martha
    11 years ago

    its completely normal, me as a married woman like it n i have experienced it many times n i guess i will more lol
    u can share it 2 ur bf, dont hide it baby, its ur sexual life n u need experienced many things.
    n yea u r right, an experienced one can give u a great surprise !!!
    i bet u will like it :)

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  • Lioness82
    11 years ago

    I feel like this is a sensitive subject. Women are more sensual than men are, which is why lesbians are great to watch (for both sexes) but when it comes to gay men, straight men are grossed out. (but women arent grossed out by 2 women) Im pretty sure your significant other wont mind experimenting.. just be careful. Because once you open that door? there is no closing it.. and he might want it all the time :) Good luck!

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  • dom180
    11 years ago

    There's nothing wrong with it, but talk to you boyfriend about it and see what he is comfortable with you doing. Don't do anything with him being okay with it.

    If he is okay with it, you can probably find women online who are willing to experiment with you quite easily :P

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  • paula65
    11 years ago

    Doesn't sound normal! Besides it's cheating...are you bi-sexual??

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  • orgasmio7
    8 years ago

    Bisexuality in women is 100% NORMAL.
    Go for it.
    He will probably be more than happy to 'fit in with it' - most men want to see their woman with another woman & get powerfully aroused by it.

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  • kinkygirl00
    11 years ago

    I kinda feel the same, but at the same time I would NEVER bring another girl into our bed! I love my bf and I've always been curious about how it would be... I think it's normal though.

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  • locksmithtress
    11 years ago

    I feel the same way. Ask about a threesome, perhaps.

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  • KaaleeBund
    11 years ago

    give me a chance, Sure i will like and enjoy that....go ahead

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  • Bow95
    11 years ago

    He's lucky. 3SUm

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  • Usmcxo3
    11 years ago

    Go for it! (:

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  • MarkGibbons
    11 years ago

    Going by what you've said, you're a cheating whore, and the best thing for you is to drop dead. Goodluck.

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  • brinababy
    11 years ago

    I think it an idk too Because you just wanna try something new spice up nt change sexually.

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  • pixie_dust
    11 years ago

    Your man would probly brighten up and have a huge grin at the idea

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  • ants91shearer
    11 years ago

    just do it u only live once , if u dnt do it den a cat that says meow

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  • oliveyou
    11 years ago

    Talk to him about it, you may be surprised with his answer. I told my boyfriend that I missed women (before him I only dated women) and he gave me permission to see women every once in awhile. I haven't done it yet but it's nice to know I am allowed if the a situation comes up.

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