I think this is pretty unfair. I do sometimes tell him I'm leaving him when I am angry, yes, but mostly because I'm hurt by something. He also does the same thing to me, he says things that hurt me deeply, and he often tells me he is leaving to purposely hurt me. I get upset and sometimes I cry too, sometimes we both cry together. and we get through it together. I don't hurt him just so I can feel wanted, it's just that when he does, I think it's sweet and I want to be close to him and I think I like it more than most do. I like when he cries, I think, because it means that he cares enough to cry for me, and I can feel his raw emotion. I don't think you can be so judgmental when you do not know me or him. I do love him, and maybe we are not exactly "normal", we have our flaws, indeed... but I think we are special in our own way. I think it's gross that you talk about sex that way. When I say I get turned on, I don't mean I just want to get pleasure out of him. I think sex can be an emotional, beautiful thing and I feel turned on the most when I feel the most in love. Not like it's really anyone's business, but I am only 18, and I have never had sex and don't plan to for awhile, so it's not like get him to have sex with me when he is in emotional anguish. Save your pity, because he and I are both strong, and we make it through all our emotional lows together. Don't pass your judgment upon me when you don't know me.
IIN that I'm immensely turned on by my boyfriend when he cries?
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I think this is pretty unfair. I do sometimes tell him I'm leaving him when I am angry, yes, but mostly because I'm hurt by something. He also does the same thing to me, he says things that hurt me deeply, and he often tells me he is leaving to purposely hurt me. I get upset and sometimes I cry too, sometimes we both cry together. and we get through it together. I don't hurt him just so I can feel wanted, it's just that when he does, I think it's sweet and I want to be close to him and I think I like it more than most do. I like when he cries, I think, because it means that he cares enough to cry for me, and I can feel his raw emotion. I don't think you can be so judgmental when you do not know me or him. I do love him, and maybe we are not exactly "normal", we have our flaws, indeed... but I think we are special in our own way. I think it's gross that you talk about sex that way. When I say I get turned on, I don't mean I just want to get pleasure out of him. I think sex can be an emotional, beautiful thing and I feel turned on the most when I feel the most in love. Not like it's really anyone's business, but I am only 18, and I have never had sex and don't plan to for awhile, so it's not like get him to have sex with me when he is in emotional anguish. Save your pity, because he and I are both strong, and we make it through all our emotional lows together. Don't pass your judgment upon me when you don't know me.