Is it normal that i'm holding my goal in life off for now?

I'm 19 and I would like to get a job someday. However, I have a 2-yr-old dog and I refuse to start working until she passes away. I don't want to get a job until she's dead because I don't want to leave her alone, I don't want to make someone else watch her, I don't want to give her up just so I can obtain my goal in life, and I believe that having a dog is a 24/7 committment just like having a child is. My mom helps me with my dog and I help her with the house (I'm on SSI and I pay all of it for rent as well as my brother). Is it normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • You are being extremely unrealistic and irrational. It sounds like you are subconsciously avoiding something and you are using ours our dog's lifespan as a way to further prevent you from facing that something.

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  • Time waits for nobody, and your reasoning is very irrational.

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  • That is friggin bonkers.

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  • I'm not sure you are aware of how long a dog lives. You know, I'm a bum as well, but your excuse is unheard of.

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  • Not normal.
    This is coming from someone who fantasizes about cannibalism.

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  • You must really love your dog.

    As long as you don't blame the dog for when you fail.

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  • Completely unrealistic. Something tells me you have psychiatric problems.

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  • ...Couldn't you just get a dog-sitter? Or a second dog to keep that one company?
    Because he/she could live for anther 10 years and that is a ridiculously long time to not work.
    (And a dog isn't a baby)

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