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A guy I'm with told me he had a threesome with a girl he was dating at the time and her friend. I can't understand why, but after he told me I don't want to do anything with him. I'm just grossed out that he did that with his exgf and her best friend, but I have no idea why. I feel like I shouldn't feel that way.
everybody's different. obviously you dont like the idea of a threesome. its not for everyone. As far as what happened then, don't worry about it.
I personally like the idea. (Im a guy, go figure!), but i wouldent even bother talking about threesomes unless I felt she might like the idea. Also, only ask if your relationship is on good standing, and you have been together a long time. if you arent in to the idea, it can ruin your relationship.
I know how you feel! My girlfriend just told me she had a threesome twice, both times with a friend and her friends boyfriend (Two different couples). She still hangs out with these people and I have to see them on a regular basis... You just gotta look past it and work on your future together.
It would gross me out if my boyfriend told me that too! Guys may think that a girl is a prude if she's turned off over a guy having a three way but in all honesty, it's freaky to learn that about someone you're dating. You can't help but think if he'll ever ask YOU to do a three way with someone.
So yes, your reaction is totally normal.
NO! Your reaction is not normal at all! Why should you be grossed out that a GUY you are with was involved with 2 GIRLS at the same time? It is the same as being grossed out if he had 2 sexual partners before you... the only difference is, he did it at the same time with them. You are acting foolishly!