Is it normal that i'm feeling this way?

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To keep it short-I've lost all my friends, and my socializing skills.
another day this dude came up to me and tried to talk, so that we could get closer, but I'm sure i just came off as rude to him. this happens all the time now, i cant seem to make new friends, and im always the 'last' choice. no one wants to be with me unless they have to, and i dont blame them. i know i seem like i have a bad personality, but i really want to be nice and friendly. this sounds so lame. im sorry if i wasted your time.

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Based on 17 votes (9 yes)
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  • Rictictavie
    5 years ago

    Stop apologizing. You seem like a nice enough person so start taking little steps toward your goal. Make small talk with someone. Even if it gets awkward this is still a step forward. If you keep your eyes on your goal you will eventually get there. Don't be so hard on yourself.

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    • confoosed
      5 years ago

      thank you so much. i try as much as i can, but i just seem to be so awkward. it sucks a lot, especially since i used to be really good at communication. thanks for your time

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  • Alexvbhg
    5 years ago

    Is it that you are afraid to let people close? And than they might Hurt you so just push them away so they cant? Or dont you do it on purpose? I can relatie to this a bit. Im pretty distant to people, but with me its just some people get really comfi with me and if they are comfi i get moor relaxed and it gets so much easier to talk and be with them. (Read my own topic you can maybe get some idea of what i mean its called'idk how she likes me. Opinions please'

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  • CryingGhosts
    5 years ago

    i literally feel the exact same way and it sucks. you try to be nice and talk to people and put yourself out there and people just don’t seem to care. i’m sorry that you feel this way because it fuckin sucks

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    • confoosed
      5 years ago

      thanks for replying, im sorry you feel this way as well. it does suck. lets both try to become better soon

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  • Appareson
    5 years ago

    You're like the person behind me.

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    • confoosed
      5 years ago

      ? what does that mean?

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  • zeldaistall
    5 years ago

    Conversation can be awkward for alot of people, if you want to be friends with someone make an effort to spend time with that person and get past that awkward stage

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    • confoosed
      5 years ago

      do you have any advice on how i can get past that awkward stage? im stuck there lol

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