My boyfriend is the life of the party, but it is tiring for me at times because he can't stop talking! Less is more sometimes. He gets frustrated because I need some quiet time. I'll be trying to watch TV or reading articles on the computer, or trying to cook and concentrate, and he is talking LOUD about politics or (please stop!) sports! He winds up the most around 10:30 p.m., just when I have trained myself to get sleepy because I have to get up for work. He will get all loud and riled and want a tickle fight, totally waking me up and getting me too awake to sleep. It's a disaster and it seems very selfish to me.
So although it's your personality, always remember that learning to turn it off with your loved ones will help your relationships a lot. They have needs too, like sleep and down time. If you think of them and curb it when they ask you without getting offended, you can be the highlight of their day.
Is it normal that I'm extremely immature?
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My boyfriend is the life of the party, but it is tiring for me at times because he can't stop talking! Less is more sometimes. He gets frustrated because I need some quiet time. I'll be trying to watch TV or reading articles on the computer, or trying to cook and concentrate, and he is talking LOUD about politics or (please stop!) sports! He winds up the most around 10:30 p.m., just when I have trained myself to get sleepy because I have to get up for work. He will get all loud and riled and want a tickle fight, totally waking me up and getting me too awake to sleep. It's a disaster and it seems very selfish to me.
So although it's your personality, always remember that learning to turn it off with your loved ones will help your relationships a lot. They have needs too, like sleep and down time. If you think of them and curb it when they ask you without getting offended, you can be the highlight of their day.