Okay, I'm going to insult and anger as many people as humanly possible here, so strap yourselves in and enjoy the ride!
Men have a problem with this. It's why, in cultures where men are still very dominant, they "circumcise" women by mutilating their genitals for no medical reason whatsoever. For the sole purpose of stopping women finding sexual pleasure. It's why women's genitals are sewn up. There is this thing called religion which takes the form of books written when men were dominant and they contain men's ideas of what a deity believes. Some religions make women cover their hair and faces so they don't attract male attention. Some religions say people who have sex before marriage should be stoned to death. They don't want people to be stoned to death. They just want them to be so scared of being stoned to death that they comply with men's will and don't have sex with others. Mythology includes things like the succubus which is both a way of saying women who want sex are actually a disguised demon, also implying it's wrong for women to want sex.
For every straight man having sex, a woman is also having sex. It's one of the very few areas where there is true equality. Whether men initiate it or not, a woman is still having sex with a man.
I could sit here and lecture you about it but that would be massively hypocritical because when I was 18 I also remember getting jealous over the same thing. You and I being jealous doesn't make other people wrong, though. It just means we're jealous and perhaps a bit insecure about certain things. The way of solving it isn't to change the world, but ourselves. It's what I did and I'm certainly happier for it.
Your post doesn't come across as irrational or hateful. I have confidence that this will come to mean less to you and won't bother you so much in the future.
And, if it means anything right now, a lot of people don't confess to being virgins at 18 when actually they are. There are more out there than you think.
Hmm, i don't usually disagree with you and i can see you have a point, but still doesn't explain the results of the experiment i tested.
Have a man ask 10 women if they want to have sex with him. Then do the same with a woman asking 10 men.
If women wasn't suppose to be the "prey" and men the "hunters" they would have the same chance of success but they don't, in fact woman stats are impressively high and men exactly the opposite.
Women taking advantage of this, break the boundaries that are set for the proper function of humanity. If the part of humans(women) that are design to filter, don't, problems occur, for example STDs, dysfunctional children etc etc.
I for one, and i'm entitled to my likings, wouldn't want a slut whatsoever. For me, she have proven that he have no filters in her mind and thus unfit to mix my genes with and reproduce the problem.
Whoa, wait a second. You had me until you made that logical leap to "supposed to be the prey". Are you arguing that gender roles are justifiable, or even biological? Neither is implied by your thought experiment and I'll argue against both.
Is it normal that I'm disgusted by the way most girls act? :l
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Okay, I'm going to insult and anger as many people as humanly possible here, so strap yourselves in and enjoy the ride!
Men have a problem with this. It's why, in cultures where men are still very dominant, they "circumcise" women by mutilating their genitals for no medical reason whatsoever. For the sole purpose of stopping women finding sexual pleasure. It's why women's genitals are sewn up. There is this thing called religion which takes the form of books written when men were dominant and they contain men's ideas of what a deity believes. Some religions make women cover their hair and faces so they don't attract male attention. Some religions say people who have sex before marriage should be stoned to death. They don't want people to be stoned to death. They just want them to be so scared of being stoned to death that they comply with men's will and don't have sex with others. Mythology includes things like the succubus which is both a way of saying women who want sex are actually a disguised demon, also implying it's wrong for women to want sex.
For every straight man having sex, a woman is also having sex. It's one of the very few areas where there is true equality. Whether men initiate it or not, a woman is still having sex with a man.
I could sit here and lecture you about it but that would be massively hypocritical because when I was 18 I also remember getting jealous over the same thing. You and I being jealous doesn't make other people wrong, though. It just means we're jealous and perhaps a bit insecure about certain things. The way of solving it isn't to change the world, but ourselves. It's what I did and I'm certainly happier for it.
Your post doesn't come across as irrational or hateful. I have confidence that this will come to mean less to you and won't bother you so much in the future.
And, if it means anything right now, a lot of people don't confess to being virgins at 18 when actually they are. There are more out there than you think.
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Imagine a key that would open any lock… Pretty cool key huh?
Now imagine a lock that could be opened by any key... Pretty shitty lock!!
Hmm, i don't usually disagree with you and i can see you have a point, but still doesn't explain the results of the experiment i tested.
Have a man ask 10 women if they want to have sex with him. Then do the same with a woman asking 10 men.
If women wasn't suppose to be the "prey" and men the "hunters" they would have the same chance of success but they don't, in fact woman stats are impressively high and men exactly the opposite.
Women taking advantage of this, break the boundaries that are set for the proper function of humanity. If the part of humans(women) that are design to filter, don't, problems occur, for example STDs, dysfunctional children etc etc.
I for one, and i'm entitled to my likings, wouldn't want a slut whatsoever. For me, she have proven that he have no filters in her mind and thus unfit to mix my genes with and reproduce the problem.
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Whoa, wait a second. You had me until you made that logical leap to "supposed to be the prey". Are you arguing that gender roles are justifiable, or even biological? Neither is implied by your thought experiment and I'll argue against both.
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I probly worded it the wrong way. What i meant is that women suppose to choose from the menu and not eat the whole kitchen.