Is it normal that i'm disgusted by sexual behaviour of most people?

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Hey guys,

I'm a guy with a completely normal sex drive, I masturbate regularly and I've recently had a girlfriend (I didn't have sex with her though). However, I somehow seem to despise the sexual behaviour of most people. I'm disgusted by their one night stands, whoring around, getting drunk, scoring chicks and being obsessed with sex. They're all like creepy animals only interested in satisfying their lowest urges. It's just inhumane, completely animalistic and makes me want to puke.

Ironically, I'm a good looking guy but this issue is bugging me 24/7. I don't think there are any more virtuous men and women and if there are, they're in a minority. I somehow feel like an alien as if I don't fit into this world. I've been also contemplating suicide. I won't do it, IT WAS ONLY MENTALLY.

How to accept my own sexuality as something normal? How to accept promiscuity as something normal? How to not get disgusted by it? How to accept this world that consists of animals? Including myself...

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  • ProseAthlete
    10 years ago

    Why are you dwelling on other people's habits and judging them for it? I'm not sure quite how to answer your question about accepting your own sexuality because you didn't talk about your own sexuality; you talked about how grotesque you find other people's choices.

    You don't have to embrace bed-hopping yourself; plenty of people don't. But you also don't have to condemn others' choices. If you're always thinking about other people's love lives, that sounds like some kind of obsessive-compulsive behavior. It's not normal. Most people probably don't spare more than a fleeting thought for what other people are doing.

    Try ignoring what other people do in their bedrooms. We are a bunch of shrieking monkeys with all kinds of carnal urges, but we're also sublimely thoughtful and creative creatures, too. Why are you only looking at one half of the equation? That seems pathologically misanthropic to me.

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  • Short4Words
    10 years ago

    You really can't talk. You have no idea that type of temptation sex has on people, some people get more opportunities than others and they simply indulge. It's cultures fault for raising men and women to think promiscuity is no harm no foul when plenty of being get really hurt in the end. But that's their choice. Please don't. Because I use to judge my friend like that, but I'm a lonely guy, and if I had a bunch of girls willing to screw me one after the other I don't know what I'd do. I'd like to say I keep to my own promises but I'm just not sure. Please try and put yourself in other's shoes.

    I'm sorry to hear you've been feeling that way but you have to know you aren't alone. I'm in a similar place myself right now. Anyways I hope you get better.

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  • Avant-Garde
    8 years ago

    You're just like me.

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  • Angang9696
    8 years ago

    I deffo feel that man. I think its a hinderance but a good quality to have

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  • kawaiigurl
    10 years ago

    i agree with you 100% but how is you being good looking ironic

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    As am I

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  • TheUnknownGuy123
    10 years ago

    "If I had a bunch of girls willing to screw me one after the other I don't know what I'd do."

    I wouldn't do it. I'm very attracted to women, but I'm more repulsed by the immorality of the act.

    I know I'm a bit troubled. And I know that its my own sex drive that I'm disgusted by, not other people's since humans tend too see their own projections in other people. That's why I asked if I can accept my own sexuality somehow. I'd really like to.

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  • TheUnknownGuy123
    10 years ago

    "You have no idea that type of temptation sex has on people, some people get more opportunities than others and they simply indulge."

    I'am the OP. This is not what I'm talking about. My ex-girlfriend LEFT me because I didn't want to have sex with her, I thought it was too early. It's not that I don't get opportunities, it's that I, even in an opportunity, have this part of me that is disgusted by the animality of the act. I'd probably be glad to have sex with a person I really love and I'm married too. It would under those conditions seem like a cultural and human thing to do.

    I'm not a misanthrope. Besides this, I love all people and have some great friends.

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