Is it normal that i'm craazy insecure about sex?

I'm a guy, 20, and i've never gone any farther then kissing some costarican girl when i was on vacation at 17 >.<

Up untill I was mid 19'ish i was a super world of warcraft nerd/pothead, since then i've gotten really into fitness, and not to brag, but i actually look really good now.

Even still, i'm super insecure about rejection, and am scared to escelate with a girl. This normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • Well, it's not necessarily abnormal. You're still a baby, you've got a lot more to see and do before you feel totally and completely confident about anything in life, let alone sex. Just try and relax a little, and before you try to impress any women, just allow yourself to become comfortable in being honest and true to yourself. We girls appreciate warmth, openness and the quality of being genuine. You don't have to do much more than that!

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  • It;s normal bc everyone is scared of rejection. but dont worry if you look good then im pretty sure any girl would go out of their way to try getting at you.

    btw pothead, thats a plusss ;)

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  • haha the first time is definitely awkward, but your body will feel so good with the chemicals rushing around that you both wont care!

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  • There are plenty of people out there who feel just the way you do. Everyone is at least a little uncomfortable with sex at your age. Just be who you truly are and you'll have nothing to worry about.

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    • I just don't wana get in a situation where i find myself in a situation where i'm with a girl that has any experience and i embarass myself alot :/

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  • man u just decribed my life.

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