My advice would be try not to fret. Throughout different stages of our lives we direct our time and attention to different people and right now that person is your boyfriend. You said you loved him, if you really mean that forget about the external pressures. If your friends were friends they will see how you feel about him and learn to accept him. Do they have good reason not to like him? If it is petty or born out of jealousy then don't let that bother you at all.
Also, your friend who you had deeper feelings for who knocked you back, don't worry about it. Sounds like she doesn't want a relationship to spoil what a special friendship you have. It is common. I often get really close to girls as friends and they tell me the same thing. Relationships are complicated things anyway, friendships are amazing. Sorry for the read I hope this is of some help to you.
Thanks for the advice. And thanks for taking the time to read the post. I almost didn't post it because just writing it out helped and I was afraid no one would read it because it's so long but thank you. I'll try not to think of things as much and just go with the flow more.
My pleasure, sometimes that's all you need to do to clear your head, express yourself in some way, get your thoughts out. Also going for a walk is good!
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My advice would be try not to fret. Throughout different stages of our lives we direct our time and attention to different people and right now that person is your boyfriend. You said you loved him, if you really mean that forget about the external pressures. If your friends were friends they will see how you feel about him and learn to accept him. Do they have good reason not to like him? If it is petty or born out of jealousy then don't let that bother you at all.
Also, your friend who you had deeper feelings for who knocked you back, don't worry about it. Sounds like she doesn't want a relationship to spoil what a special friendship you have. It is common. I often get really close to girls as friends and they tell me the same thing. Relationships are complicated things anyway, friendships are amazing. Sorry for the read I hope this is of some help to you.
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Thanks for the advice. And thanks for taking the time to read the post. I almost didn't post it because just writing it out helped and I was afraid no one would read it because it's so long but thank you. I'll try not to think of things as much and just go with the flow more.
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My pleasure, sometimes that's all you need to do to clear your head, express yourself in some way, get your thoughts out. Also going for a walk is good!