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We are in a monogamous relationships where threeways and cheating are completely off the table.
| No, It's just pixels | 10 | |
| Maybe, it depends on the way you two choose to deal with it. | 4 | |
| No, he can do whatever he wants | 6 | |
| Yes, It's totally cheating for him to do that! | 1 | |
| Yes, It's kind of bad, he shouldn't do it | 7 |
It's normal. My bf watches porno in my presence. I also watch. It's fun only.
My boyfriend watch porn. At first I was upset because I felt I wasn't enough for him and he's looking at other girls jerking off. I stil get upset If he have nudes poster on the wall but I rather have him do that then screwing around. So now we are ok and sometime we like to watch it together.
At least not while you are with him. When alone he will watch it in any case.
I'm very bothered as well when he watches porn even tho i know there is no reason too, especially since i watch a lot of porn as well. I think im more bothered because there are specific pornostars he likes and i cant help comparing myself to them. Its normal to feel bothered but there is nothing u can really do
Just because someone is in a sexual relationship doesn't mean they won't still masturbate. Most men, to my knowledge, don't rely solely on their partner for sexual gratification. Whether it's because you're not around, you're not in the mood, you've had a fight, or he just wants to do it by himself, he's going to jack off. And in this culture where porn websites are on pretty much every man's web history (unless they delete their history), it becomes quite difficult for a guy to get off without porn of some kind. And if the guy can get off without porn then it's probably going to take significantly longer, which somewhat defeats the purpose for many men. A few reasons to encourage you to be ok with it are: less sex means less likelihood of getting pregnant, you'll both enjoy it more when you do have sex because it won't be as mundane, and for the physical health of both of you. Studies suggest that men should get off around 5 times a week to help stave off prostate cancer. Several women that I know wouldn't want to have sex this much because they say it would cause discomfort and soreness.
i bet you never said these words to him. I dont like this kind of foreplay. A lot of women i have been with have no idea how to initiate foreplay and have asked me to put some porn on. this trains men to use porn as foreplay. and why would it not. the cure is simple tell him you dont enjoy porn and when he needs sex to give you the foreplay. what can go wrong?