Is it normal that i'm attracted to them

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I find myself being attracted to gay guys and straight girls. It's clearly impossible to have a relationship beyond friendship, but I still like them. If a straight guy likes me, i blow him off and if a gay or bi girl likes me i feel gross. Then i develop huge crushes on girls that have boyfriends and they're not gay. Its frustrating and gay guys are hot to me..i like their personality and stuff...this isn't a serious problem, but i just wanna know why i get these feelings once in a while. share your thoughts...

ps: this started happening last month and i kinda noticed last year and ignored it

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    This means you are bi but you like those that look more on the feminine side.

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    • Alaxett
      13 years ago | pl

      Oh, that explains alot. I wasn't even thought about that.

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  • Alaxett
    13 years ago | pl

    Wait a minute, lemme get the picture... you say that you're a bi girl who only want gay guys and straight girls? Sound like it's completely inversed, that's unheard of.

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  • Lolawesome65
    7 years ago | pl

    I understand this a lot. It's completely normal.

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  • Geneva5
    10 years ago | pl

    Level 8 fuck stick

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  • anniejones
    12 years ago | pl

    i understand. everyone says i do this because im afraid of having a real relationship, but i am legitimately not attracted to straight men or gay girls. there needs to be a support group for this

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  • VoLoPoK
    12 years ago | pl

    RweuRweuRweuRweu

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  • elvalil
    13 years ago | pl

    This is normal:). People always want things/people that they can't get. I am bi, and I am always attracted to straight straight girls. Besides, gay guys are way more considerate.(I know how you feel) Just don't take that extra step, you are gonna get hurt. *hugs*

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  • db1988
    13 years ago | pl

    no i think it is uncommon personaly bc i am a les but even before i came out and still had some attraction it was twds gay men they are hott there more understanding there that piece that you miss in a straight man but liking girls is natural too women are beaitul creatures its natural to say ohh shes cute or hot its rather or not you chose to act on those feelings some ppl do some dont its just being able to find common ground or finding what it is that your looking for may be its something in gay men adn in straight women that you would like to have all in one person hard to find im sure but it will be ok

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