Is it normal that i'm always wrong?

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I like for my friends to talk about what's on their mind and viceversa. However, through the years, I've found that if I disagree with them at all, that I'm being unreasonable. I never raise my voice. I always am respectful of their thoughts and feelings. I've even stopped saying anything at all, whether I agree or disagree because I don't want to start something. I care about them and how they feel. Then they complain about me being unconcerned. I don't know how to deal with them anymore. I love them, but I can't do anything right with them. They obviously don't care about stepping on my feelings. Is it normal that I feel so confused and conflicted?

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  • PinkMango
    11 years ago | pl

    You definitely need new friends. :)

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  • keeping_up_with_da_kids
    11 years ago | pl

    I a friend whose answer to every argument is "Well I would know". And "I am right you are wrong"

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  • chicabonita
    12 years ago | pl

    That happens with me and my mom all the time! I dint remember the last time she apologized to ne. Sucks.

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  • Dagan
    12 years ago | pl

    Buy new friends. The others have expired.

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  • YoshiFail
    13 years ago | pl

    Its happens that you seem to be in a group of phony friends that do not care about you or your feelings. If you wish to call them friends after that than I say that you are a pushover. Its obvious that they are not your "true" friends since they didn't give a damn to look into your opinions/feelings, and they didn't even asked what you thought about the matter if you were so quiet throughout all that. Or they were just forgetful and said that in spite of themselves, talk to them first and clarify your feelings for once.

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  • blondie0h3
    13 years ago | pl

    you're friends are assholes.

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  • themanofmw2
    13 years ago | pl

    Do u have ears a nose 2 eyes a mouth and clothes because u sound familiar

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  • themanofmw2
    13 years ago | pl

    I might b one of the friends

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    your wrong about that.

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago | pl

    I say you put on your big girl panties and make real friends. You're also going to need to stop being so sensitive.

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  • kellstar
    13 years ago | pl

    It seems asthough your friends don't care about your feelings at all. No offence but they don't sound like very good friends at all!! It's important to be able to talk to your friends and give them opinions without feeling like they arnt letting u say things u should b able to say. How old r u? It would b easier to help u if I knew the age bracket. U said u have started to not say anything in fear of the problems it will cause, talking and communicating and giving our opinions is vital in good friendships! Have u talked to them and told them how u feel? If they r true friends they will listen and talk to u about it.

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