Pinkcheerleaderxoxo what kind of clothes do you wear? Low cut tops? tight jeans? you are a cheerleader, right? You can not possibly be afraid of male attention and dress to show your body at the same time. Think about that, and the way you dress. Also you need to assess your own self image. Realize there is more for you to offer humanity than sex.
This problem is in your head and therefore up to YOU to fix. Maybe the boyfriend is a little abusive/possessive and you just dont realize it yet? Step back and take a look at your life and what is going on there. Something is not right. Also, I know how you feel to a degree. I was messed with as a child, and I had a womans body very young so I always dreaded the looks of older men. Now that I am older I realize most of them meant me no harm.
For all you others..
I have been molested by someone I knew at a young age, I was date raped and raped by a stranger. I do not shy away from male attention nor do I go out of my way to get it. I am NOT the hottest thing on the planet but I am not ugly. I am average. I know horrible looking little whores who get paid for sex all the time. There is no norm, and nothing is sacred anymore. Rape happens, and it is probably RARELY reported.
To Pinkcheerleaderxoxo again, go to your local police station and ask them for a whistle and put it on your keychain. It can be heard for a very long distance. Also I have a metal 'tag' on my key chain that doesnt look threatening at all but will do serious damage if applied correctly. Take some personal defense courses and stay out of dark parking lots at night. and to all your girls
ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS CHECK YOUR BACKSEAT BEFORE GETTING INTO YOUR CAR! Dont learn that the hard way....
Is it normal that I'm always scared of getting raped?
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Pinkcheerleaderxoxo what kind of clothes do you wear? Low cut tops? tight jeans? you are a cheerleader, right? You can not possibly be afraid of male attention and dress to show your body at the same time. Think about that, and the way you dress. Also you need to assess your own self image. Realize there is more for you to offer humanity than sex.
This problem is in your head and therefore up to YOU to fix. Maybe the boyfriend is a little abusive/possessive and you just dont realize it yet? Step back and take a look at your life and what is going on there. Something is not right. Also, I know how you feel to a degree. I was messed with as a child, and I had a womans body very young so I always dreaded the looks of older men. Now that I am older I realize most of them meant me no harm.
For all you others..
I have been molested by someone I knew at a young age, I was date raped and raped by a stranger. I do not shy away from male attention nor do I go out of my way to get it. I am NOT the hottest thing on the planet but I am not ugly. I am average. I know horrible looking little whores who get paid for sex all the time. There is no norm, and nothing is sacred anymore. Rape happens, and it is probably RARELY reported.
To Pinkcheerleaderxoxo again, go to your local police station and ask them for a whistle and put it on your keychain. It can be heard for a very long distance. Also I have a metal 'tag' on my key chain that doesnt look threatening at all but will do serious damage if applied correctly. Take some personal defense courses and stay out of dark parking lots at night. and to all your girls
ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS CHECK YOUR BACKSEAT BEFORE GETTING INTO YOUR CAR! Dont learn that the hard way....