Is it normal that I'm afraid to have sex because of pregnancy? (guy)

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  • Hell yes it is normal and I WISH there were more men on Earth like you! A man that doesn't want to end up being some dumb-slut's baby daddy and is willing to take measures to prevent the baby momma drama from happening? If anything, it is a sign of intelligence to have the forsight to be knowledgable of the risks and for that I praise you!

    In fact, if you thought any differently then I am sure many IIN users would be begging you to NOT lose your V-card! But please, someday, reproduce. You used paragraph breaks and proper syntax. Your genes are valuable, son.

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    • I just wanna say, I took the time to read most of your comments and they are awesome!! :)

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    • It was impressive, considering both the length, breadth of subjects discussed and proper sentence structure.

      The fears are rational. Just wear protection, only dummies get pregnant when using protection. Someone of your intelligence wont.

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      • God would not allow a slut to be blessed with a child that could, quite possibly, graduate from high school someday.

        I just realized how mean that sounds...
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        I stand by it.

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        • so your saying all sluts kids are thick as shit!!!

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        • I dont know, I have seen some pretty stupid slutty people have some pretty unexpectedly successful children. Well the kids are young, but definitely not what you expect.

          Its similar to how you see really ugly people have good looking kids for some reason.

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          • Lmao !
            Soooo true about ugly people having good looking kids.
            Ive always tried to figure that one out.

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          • It's called a genetic anamoly and it is unlikely.

            Being that I am from ghetto-redneck town, I have witnessed, first hand, the cycle of stupidity being perpetuated through the generations, with a cycle breaker here and there but the general pattern remains a constant. By stupidity, I mean people who *genuinly* believe that nobody plans pregnancy, and that it is permissable not to make an effort to prevent it.

            I'm not an anon or an internet person, I have a real life and a social life and I am one of those common lay people that you see every day hanging out with a group of people and doing my thing. I've met many people and I don't think that more sheltered individuals understand just how many babies are born due to lack of use of birth control, literal ignorance of birth control or plain ole fucking whomever and not even thinking of the consequences. It's insane.

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            • Yes I agree with what you are saying, most of the time the pattern fits the standard that has been the norm. If that makes sense.

              People can be relied on to be one of two things, unreliably predictable and reliably unpredictable, meaning the moment you think they understand responsibility they will screw it up royally, OR when you think they are destined to be a bonehead they will surprise you with amazing insight.

              You also cant discount the role religion plays in it as well, many thick headed individuals believe birth control is sacrilegious and that if Jesus didnt want me to have any more babies then he wouldnt be sending them to me. TLC's 27 and counting or whatever it is, is a perfect example.

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              • REMEMBER ME???

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              • Or is it the Dugar family? Not sure.
                But I believe that at this point, her uterus would have turned into a burlap sack.

                Being a spiritual person myself, I find it insulting when Christians say that they elect not to use birth control because it is against God's plan and if the lord didn't want them to have kids they wouldn't get pregnant. They're basically saying that an omnipotent and all knowing God is powerless in the face of the mighty pill, and that human intervention can somehow supercede the ultimate will of God.

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