You aren't a retard, that person was. You're being sensible to worry, even when you are ready you would have a worry about her conceiving. Everyone should, actually: it's rare that people are even 80%ready for a kid when they conceive.
You may or may not be ready, only you'll know. If you feel up to sex tomorrow, then you re, if you don't then you probably aren't.
How did your girl feel after it? Was she concerned? Honestly, if I were a guy, I wouldn't have sex with anyone even indifferent to kids: I don't want them and want someone who agrees and will take precautional steps.
If she's on your side, perhaps she'll look into a secondary contraceptive which may help your worry.
I'm on the Depo shot and use condoms, I'm now fairly content, but my guy's still cautious; it's an endearing trait, I love it.
Is it normal that I'm afraid to have sex again?
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You aren't a retard, that person was. You're being sensible to worry, even when you are ready you would have a worry about her conceiving. Everyone should, actually: it's rare that people are even 80%ready for a kid when they conceive.
You may or may not be ready, only you'll know. If you feel up to sex tomorrow, then you re, if you don't then you probably aren't.
How did your girl feel after it? Was she concerned? Honestly, if I were a guy, I wouldn't have sex with anyone even indifferent to kids: I don't want them and want someone who agrees and will take precautional steps.
If she's on your side, perhaps she'll look into a secondary contraceptive which may help your worry.
I'm on the Depo shot and use condoms, I'm now fairly content, but my guy's still cautious; it's an endearing trait, I love it.