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Roughly 3 months ago me and my girlfriend were going to have sex.. Keep in mind that I'm a teenager so Me and her were a little nervous to do it. So we start doing it and I had a condom on but I jeezed in the condom and I kinda freaked out and overreacted because I don't want to get her pregnant. Since that day we haven't had sex.. Should we try again..?
You aren't a retard, that person was. You're being sensible to worry, even when you are ready you would have a worry about her conceiving. Everyone should, actually: it's rare that people are even 80%ready for a kid when they conceive.
You may or may not be ready, only you'll know. If you feel up to sex tomorrow, then you re, if you don't then you probably aren't.
How did your girl feel after it? Was she concerned? Honestly, if I were a guy, I wouldn't have sex with anyone even indifferent to kids: I don't want them and want someone who agrees and will take precautional steps.
If she's on your side, perhaps she'll look into a secondary contraceptive which may help your worry.
I'm on the Depo shot and use condoms, I'm now fairly content, but my guy's still cautious; it's an endearing trait, I love it.
No. You freaked because you know you are not ready for the responsibility of being a parent. Turning to strangers on the Internet for advice on this matter also shows that you are not mature enough or emotionally ready for sexual intimacy. There are other ways to be intimate without sex, you know.
I think you should do a lot of research on contraception before you go for it again.
You guys can still have hand jobs, rubbing, blow jobs, eating out. That's not sex.
it can be scary, if your worried about her getting pregnant than that good. it means you really care about her and your thinking about your future. if you want to continue having sex then encourage her talk to her mom about starting birthcontrol pills. i was 16 when i started them. there are lots of options. maybe you and her could sit down and research it online together. if your serious about having sex then there are options.
Retards? Yeah no that's not what I am at all.. Just I worry alot and don't want my girlfriend to be "16 and pregnant".
Thats what her asshole is for. Problem solved. I accept cash and all major credit cards.