Is it normal that i'm a virgin and i fantasize of rough kinky sex?

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Hi, I'm a virgin of choice not because of religious beliefs or anything of that nature. Simply because there's so many dirty ass guys that just want to screw you and leave you and move onto the next one. I'm always having these dirty thoughts about having very rough sex with my future boyfriend/husband. Ehh it just excites me and yes I frequently masturbate.

Its just I have this goody girl image everybody assume that I'm a sweet girl and I wouldn't dare to do promiscuous things. When I think about these sexual thoughts I feel kind of dirty afterwards. I just want a nice guy to screw my brains out without having society judge me is that so hard to ask? :(

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  • Roadrunner30
    9 years ago

    Nothing wrong with that at all. Perfectly normal. Whoever you do decide to give it up to will be a lucky man. Good luck, and don't rush it. Props to you for waiting.

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  • LIGHTHOUSE
    9 years ago

    You are a simple girl but it doesn't meant that you would be that much simple and soft in bed. Actually, this is the contrasting feature found in lots of people. That may be because of their subtle nature they want to explore new ideas and thoughts which are hardcore for you but vanilla(sex) for others. You have high sex drive but at the same time you have full control and patience for waiting a ideal boyfriend in your life. Good luck.

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  • peterrabbyt69
    7 years ago

    You can suck cocks and remain a virgin and make friends at the same time. Do you swallow?

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  • TheShyGirlFromWork
    9 years ago

    Let your imagination go wild, so when you decide to have sex, you can be wild.

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  • orinoco
    9 years ago

    It is normal that you pleasure yourself with dirty fantasies. Rape, pee, spanking, bondage or similar - many people are into something taboo-ed which gets them going, but few people admit to it.

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  • geek10
    9 years ago

    Try me ;) LOL, its normal

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  • tripw7
    9 years ago

    Hey, I am a guy and I had such really off the board thoughts when I was growing up about what I wanted in sex. Pretty much, I wanted sex every night. Maybe several times I thought.
    When I meant my "sole" mate, I didn't want to do anything that would mess up our relationship, so I abstained till we were married.
    What a great night. I stayed up all night and we had sex almost every hour. Yes, I was tired in the morning, but it was a good tired.
    Good luck to you......

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  • sillygirl77
    9 years ago

    You're normal OP. No one would suspect the dirty and rough things I do with my hubby. I'm such a good girl :P. I hope you find someone you can trust and who wants to be in committed relationship with to enjoy your desires with!

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  • DannyKanes
    9 years ago

    Liar.

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    • ChocolatePrincess
      9 years ago

      :(

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  • Darkoil
    9 years ago

    I'm going through a weird obsession at the moment where I want to bare bottom spank girls. My girlfriend won't let me though.

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    • sillygirl77
      9 years ago

      That's a pretty normal desire... not weird :P. Too bad your girl isn't into it, but of course have to respect those boundaries.

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    • ChocolatePrincess
      9 years ago

      Let me be your mistress please. ;OOOOOOOO

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  • INAC
    9 years ago

    Religious folks are usually the craziest in the sack it's acceptable. Considering I once had a Christian girlfriend who brought up the femdom style to me, I know first hand that what you define as rough other people define as softcore.

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    • ChocolatePrincess
      9 years ago

      Well I suppose so but trust me I fantasize about some really creepy/kinky shit. Or maybe its all in my head ehh I don't know.

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