Is it normal that i'm a boy that likes my bestfriend who's a boy?

Okay, I'm a boy, that is in love with his bestfriend, who's a boy as well. Like alot, but I don't wanna say anything because he would tell everyone at our school and reject.. I think. I mean he shows signs that he does, but how do I know for sure?

Is that normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • Stop torturing yourself and stop hanging out with him.

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  • Eatmyshorts, do you have to be such a complete asshole? I'm not gay but seriously, who made the rule that all men have to like women?

    I feel it is pretty normal that you wouldn't tell him but you may regret it later. Life is to short to live in secrecy just go and do it. :)

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  • I wouldnt tell him. I told my best friend and things were...awkward for the rest of the year. He barely spoke to me afterwards

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  • You're a homosexual, you either tell him or you don't and regret it or not.

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  • It's normal to be gay. If you're not 100% sure that your friend is like that and you still want to admit your feelings to him, precede with caution. If you ask me, the risk of being bullied/harassed all because he told everyone isn't worth it. You could drop subtle hints but that can be risky too.

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  • Yeah I wouldn't tell him things may get really awkward and it could affect your friendship with him. You can go ahead and tell him you're gay but just not the fact that you have feelings towards him he may then just feel weirded out. Good Luck

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  • I think he knows he's gay - duh - that's not his question.

    OP - tough question. It is a risk to find out, and you have to consider what may happen & how safe you are. That you are this unsure not just of his feelings toward you & his sexual orientation, but also that he would blab & reject makes me think you need to learn more about him before making advances.

    I hope there are places you can go where it is OK & safe to be yourself.

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    • Bravooo !! Ollieo I think you are the shit I see you everywhere and you seem like such a cool cat. lol

      Oh and if you think its worth risking your friendship over then go for it, but hun let me tell you that if he aint gay/bi then, well, hes a guy.. and guys these days are complete dicks. Look at "eatmyshorts" for instince.

      "Eatmyshorts" You are a asswhole, and Im sure you know it. But trust me that shit your saying aint cute, cool, funny, OR true.. so I suggest you keep your thoughts to yourself.

      Good Luck!!

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  • Yes, it's normal to be gay. If you are.

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  • gay:)
    dont worry its not as bad as everyone aays it is

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  • Yes it's normal, it's called being gay...lol. If you think he'd react badly, I wouldn't tell him. But unfortuniteky the only way to find out us if you tell him how you feel, or if he tells you he's gay.

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  • ok....maybe you should drop hints. Maybe catch his eye for a little bit to long. On the other hand you could just be blunt and honest and risk it. In the name of love right? And if he says anything....well hes an asshole anyway find a better one.

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  • What the fuck is wrong with the world nowadays??!everyone is so fucked up with their gender.you're suppose to like 'girls' not 'BOYS'.you're suppose to love pussies not dicks..geez..

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