Is it normal that i'm a 19 year old virgin?

I've had a good amount of opportunities, but the problem's either been that I don't really like them, I feel guilty, uncomfortable, or that I want to wait because I really like them. I'm also not much of a partyer.

Is It Normal?
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  • Yes normal. It's not a big deal if you're not getting yourself into situations that are conducive to sex with strangers.

    I won't lie and say at 23 it doesn't feel kind of shitty being a virgin but I'm not gonna let it make me do anything I'll regret. I'm not even looking for sex so much as I'm looking for intimacy and maybe that's where we're the same.

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  • Love and sex are two different things. U should feel it now how it feels when a guy lick ur pussy and lick ur asshole. Dont miss the chance and take the taste of a dick.

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  • Nothing abnormal about not having had sex at 19, although in our sex-crazed society I can see how you'd feel pressured. Go with your instincts. It'll happen when you're ready.

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  • it does sound like you have issues.your making something bigger out of it than it is...I am not suggesting you sleep with anyone you dont want to our that you sleep around a lot....but most people find someone they like, trust and are attracted to to have sex with...its a basic human need

    it can be intimacy or social anxiety , etc.....I was a virgin for a couple different reasons...one was low self esteem , deep shame about my body, and social anxiety and rigid religious beliefs.....I ended up going to prostitues

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    • There is nothing wrong with him/her.

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      • Having problems getting basic needs met is dysfunctional....there may be some sort of underlying emotional issue caused by abuse, neglect, etc.

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  • 100 percent normal! I lost my virginity when I was 13 and if I could have it back I would! Sex isn't everything. Wait until you find someone who makes you happy, and you feel comfortable with! Even if it's not your soulmate (not like you'd know anyways with that amount of time)

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