No, no you aren't pathetic. Trust me, for the longest time I didn't know to flirt either. But, it's quite easy. A lot of it is body language and there are actually quite a few helpful pages online.
http://www.wikihow.com/Flirt
I scanned through this very quickly and it seems like a good resource.
http://www.lovepanky.com/women/attracting-and-dating-men/how-to-flirt-with-a-guy-without-flirting
This one seems to be a more subtle approach.
Once you get used to the idea it becomes a lot easier, honestly. I know at first it can be petrifying, like omg what if I say the wrong thing? But some guys can actually find that cute and funny. Ultimately, you need to be yourself and do NOT lose who you are in the process of flirting, because that is when you will get awkward. Being fun and playful is the main focus of it. It may seem intimidating, but just relax, you may find it easier than expected!
is it normal that i'm 21 and not one guy asked me out?
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No, no you aren't pathetic. Trust me, for the longest time I didn't know to flirt either. But, it's quite easy. A lot of it is body language and there are actually quite a few helpful pages online.
http://www.wikihow.com/Flirt
I scanned through this very quickly and it seems like a good resource.
http://www.lovepanky.com/women/attracting-and-dating-men/how-to-flirt-with-a-guy-without-flirting
This one seems to be a more subtle approach.
Once you get used to the idea it becomes a lot easier, honestly. I know at first it can be petrifying, like omg what if I say the wrong thing? But some guys can actually find that cute and funny. Ultimately, you need to be yourself and do NOT lose who you are in the process of flirting, because that is when you will get awkward. Being fun and playful is the main focus of it. It may seem intimidating, but just relax, you may find it easier than expected!