Let me tell you that people like flirting. If you aren't flirting then you really aren't expressing any interest in them. You very well might have had very men guys interested in you, but since you never returned the attraction by flirting their feelings were likely cast off. Guys are not mind readers. If you like them, tell them. This isn't the 1800's where women can't make moves on guys, in fact guys encourage it and love it!
My old best friend from high school was freakin beautiful and although she was chubby she was able to reel in any guy she wanted. Why? Because of her flirty personality. I remember questioning how the hell so many girls I knew had guys chasing after them, then I realized, oh you know what? They're flirting! It works. You can't sit there like a bump on a log hoping that someone will fall for that.
My best friend got somewhat mad at me when I started dating my current boyfriend, because he had feelings for me. How was I supposed to know when he didn't convey it in any sort of way? He definitely didn't flirt with me. Don't hold back. Flirt with guys and they will respond, trust me. Flirting is the only sure way to allow someone to know that you're interested. Without it one can be perceived as uninterested in dating.
Don't be afraid to flirt! You will get response, especially if you're really as beautiful as people give you credit for. Flirting works, trust me :)
No, no you aren't pathetic. Trust me, for the longest time I didn't know to flirt either. But, it's quite easy. A lot of it is body language and there are actually quite a few helpful pages online.
http://www.wikihow.com/Flirt
I scanned through this very quickly and it seems like a good resource.
http://www.lovepanky.com/women/attracting-and-dating-men/how-to-flirt-with-a-guy-without-flirting
This one seems to be a more subtle approach.
Once you get used to the idea it becomes a lot easier, honestly. I know at first it can be petrifying, like omg what if I say the wrong thing? But some guys can actually find that cute and funny. Ultimately, you need to be yourself and do NOT lose who you are in the process of flirting, because that is when you will get awkward. Being fun and playful is the main focus of it. It may seem intimidating, but just relax, you may find it easier than expected!
is it normal that i'm 21 and not one guy asked me out?
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Let me tell you that people like flirting. If you aren't flirting then you really aren't expressing any interest in them. You very well might have had very men guys interested in you, but since you never returned the attraction by flirting their feelings were likely cast off. Guys are not mind readers. If you like them, tell them. This isn't the 1800's where women can't make moves on guys, in fact guys encourage it and love it!
My old best friend from high school was freakin beautiful and although she was chubby she was able to reel in any guy she wanted. Why? Because of her flirty personality. I remember questioning how the hell so many girls I knew had guys chasing after them, then I realized, oh you know what? They're flirting! It works. You can't sit there like a bump on a log hoping that someone will fall for that.
My best friend got somewhat mad at me when I started dating my current boyfriend, because he had feelings for me. How was I supposed to know when he didn't convey it in any sort of way? He definitely didn't flirt with me. Don't hold back. Flirt with guys and they will respond, trust me. Flirting is the only sure way to allow someone to know that you're interested. Without it one can be perceived as uninterested in dating.
Don't be afraid to flirt! You will get response, especially if you're really as beautiful as people give you credit for. Flirting works, trust me :)
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Wow thank you this is the best i've read so far.. But the prob is i dont know how to do it. :( im pathetic :(
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No, no you aren't pathetic. Trust me, for the longest time I didn't know to flirt either. But, it's quite easy. A lot of it is body language and there are actually quite a few helpful pages online.
http://www.wikihow.com/Flirt
I scanned through this very quickly and it seems like a good resource.
http://www.lovepanky.com/women/attracting-and-dating-men/how-to-flirt-with-a-guy-without-flirting
This one seems to be a more subtle approach.
Once you get used to the idea it becomes a lot easier, honestly. I know at first it can be petrifying, like omg what if I say the wrong thing? But some guys can actually find that cute and funny. Ultimately, you need to be yourself and do NOT lose who you are in the process of flirting, because that is when you will get awkward. Being fun and playful is the main focus of it. It may seem intimidating, but just relax, you may find it easier than expected!