I had never been on a date or been in a relationship until I was 22. Now I know it's a bit different but I think I can sympathize to some extent. Try to look at this situation differently... Finding a partner, although important, is to some extent out of your control. Don't give up but don't obsess over your loneliness. I did. And it led to depression and a complete destruction of my self esteem. I highly suggest you focus less on finding someone else, and more on taking care of yourself. Build your self esteem by hitting the gym, eating healthy, and finding hobbies or interests that you're good at. Trust me, once you start seeing yourself as a date-able person, others will see that too. How you feel about yourself affects how others see you. Do things to boost your confidence physically and mentally. Take care!
Is it normal that I'm 30 and never had a relationship?
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Hi,
I had never been on a date or been in a relationship until I was 22. Now I know it's a bit different but I think I can sympathize to some extent. Try to look at this situation differently... Finding a partner, although important, is to some extent out of your control. Don't give up but don't obsess over your loneliness. I did. And it led to depression and a complete destruction of my self esteem. I highly suggest you focus less on finding someone else, and more on taking care of yourself. Build your self esteem by hitting the gym, eating healthy, and finding hobbies or interests that you're good at. Trust me, once you start seeing yourself as a date-able person, others will see that too. How you feel about yourself affects how others see you. Do things to boost your confidence physically and mentally. Take care!