Is it normal that i'm 17 and had sex?

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I'm a 17 year old girl, and sadly, i made the mistake of having sex with my boyfriend only after dating for two weeks. For my entire life, i have always thought of sex as 'scary' and i did not want to do it. I don't even know how all of this happened! when i look back on it, i don't even remember what was going through my mind! i know this sounds stupid, but it's like i was a zombie or something for the time being. Anyways, now that it has been done, i wish i had never been born. I told my parents because i was scared that i could potentially be pregnant, because, even though he didn't cum inside me, we still did not use protection, and i heard pre-cum can get girls pregnant too. Now that my boyfriend and i have been dating for two months, i still look back on this, and i know that i will never be able to forget or forgive myself, especially since my parents CONTINUOUSLY bring it up. Is it normal that i feel like a completely worthless whore? (p.s. sorry for the language use, but i needed to get this out)

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  • regisphilbin
    8 years ago | pl

    you'll be okay

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  • Crazyperson2
    8 years ago | pl

    I did it when i was 13. mistakes are made. I can't say I'm all that ashamed yet. Probably will be when the relationship ends but it hasn't yet.

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  • 100Spoon
    10 years ago | pl

    Relax

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  • SpaceUnicorn
    10 years ago | pl

    You regret doing this, right?
    Well, just let it pass by.
    You have notjin to worry about

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    10 years ago | pl

    Well you are lucky you did not get pregnant first off. You made a mistake and acted on impulse. Do not worry about it too much. If you honestly feel bad do not do it again.

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  • Ryan556
    11 years ago | pl

    I had sex at 6 and she was 7 didn't happen entantily I forgave myself for acedentilly doing here with a boner things happen relly

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  • (:sweet:)
    12 years ago | pl

    Idk after my first time i couldnt stop smiling but prob cuz me and him had fooled around for about two years

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    im not joking the first time i had sex with a girl no not related too me i was 8 and then until i was 10 so no its 100% normal but heres the kicker i was that young so since i havent had sex for so long i miss it its not wierd your 17 im 14 but the only difference is the age i mean yea i was way too young but it happened and i got over it i was also raped 2 by 2 diff guys but i dont rant on that ive gotten over it and now im fine but so yea its normal and actually i almost had sex about 2 months ago with a girl at my school but i left her for another girl but its probly best cuz she gave it up the day i asked her out and everyday after

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  • sparrows
    13 years ago | pl

    You're definitely not worthless because you had sex. You probably only feel that way because you did it so early in your relationship. Take things slow and give it a few months. You'll feel better in time.

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  • iamfarva
    13 years ago | pl

    I lost my virginity when I was 14, and my girlfriend was 13. I'm 20 now, and she's 19, and we're still together, so it worked out for us, but everyone is different. you shouldn't feel worthless and you shouldn't have to forgive yourself. people make mistakes and they shouldn't dwell on them.

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