It's perfectly normal. :) I'm 21 and still a virgin. In past relationships I had no desire to be fully intimate. Nowadays I have been dating someone for almost 9 months and he and I both want to take our time to feel comfortable enough before we go the next step (he is a virgin too and we're the same age) and I feel more comfortable with him than with anybody I've been with.
So don't worry about it. I don't even know why people make such a big deal out of it, I honestly never felt pressure to have sex. In the past, I've been asked by people if I have and some have looked down on me for it if I replied "no". But in terms of how I take their reaction - I could care less that they think I'm weird or whatever for not having done it. My unfazed emotion towards the matter meant I did not feel pressured to change my personal lifestyle just to fit in. :) You'll find the right person and you'll know when you're ready!
I think it's perfectly normal.
Personally, I'm kind of wishing I never lost it to the person I lost it to considering not long after the only arguments we had were just about him not getting any.
Made me feel really used.
So much for "making love", eh? :/
Is it normal that I'm 19 and a virgin?
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It's perfectly normal. :) I'm 21 and still a virgin. In past relationships I had no desire to be fully intimate. Nowadays I have been dating someone for almost 9 months and he and I both want to take our time to feel comfortable enough before we go the next step (he is a virgin too and we're the same age) and I feel more comfortable with him than with anybody I've been with.
So don't worry about it. I don't even know why people make such a big deal out of it, I honestly never felt pressure to have sex. In the past, I've been asked by people if I have and some have looked down on me for it if I replied "no". But in terms of how I take their reaction - I could care less that they think I'm weird or whatever for not having done it. My unfazed emotion towards the matter meant I did not feel pressured to change my personal lifestyle just to fit in. :) You'll find the right person and you'll know when you're ready!
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I think it's perfectly normal.
Personally, I'm kind of wishing I never lost it to the person I lost it to considering not long after the only arguments we had were just about him not getting any.
Made me feel really used.
So much for "making love", eh? :/