Is it normal that i'm 19 and a virgin?

I'm a 19 year old girl and I'm still a virgin. I have no interest in losing my virginity any time soon. Even if I have long term relationships, I still feel I don't want to have sex with my partner. Is it normal?

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Based on 304 votes (243 yes)
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  • Selonec-35

    It's perfectly normal. :) I'm 21 and still a virgin. In past relationships I had no desire to be fully intimate. Nowadays I have been dating someone for almost 9 months and he and I both want to take our time to feel comfortable enough before we go the next step (he is a virgin too and we're the same age) and I feel more comfortable with him than with anybody I've been with.

    So don't worry about it. I don't even know why people make such a big deal out of it, I honestly never felt pressure to have sex. In the past, I've been asked by people if I have and some have looked down on me for it if I replied "no". But in terms of how I take their reaction - I could care less that they think I'm weird or whatever for not having done it. My unfazed emotion towards the matter meant I did not feel pressured to change my personal lifestyle just to fit in. :) You'll find the right person and you'll know when you're ready!

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    • Anony-mous

      I think it's perfectly normal.
      Personally, I'm kind of wishing I never lost it to the person I lost it to considering not long after the only arguments we had were just about him not getting any.

      Made me feel really used.
      So much for "making love", eh? :/

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  • ilovemybfj

    Of course :) There was a movie made called "The 40 Year Old Virgin" lol so ur just fine not every girl drops it like it's hot when they are 13 like some girls. I say if you truly love someone wait as long as you need. If they truly love you they will wait as long as they can possibly wait. "Absence makes the heart grow fonder" btw I'm 18 in a very wonderful relationship with someone I couldnt possibly love more and I'm still a virgin too so no worries :) If a guy insists you lay down when he says to u need to dump his ass and find a better one. It should be agreed between both people that you want to have sex. "It takes two"

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  • SilverJayeWolf

    What's wrong with being a virgin? Absolutely nothing! Personally, I think society has negatively affected girls into thinking it's wrong to not want to have sex. I actually consider a girl a slut if she's still a teen and has already lost her virginity. You only have it once, so why rush out?

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  • pogos

    No, everyone has sex at the end of elementary school. What went wrong with you?

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  • shaulaeatsbabies

    my boyfriend is 21 and a virgin its perfectly fine :D he is very shy when it comes to anything sexual cx dont lose it until you are ready age doesnt matter

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  • Hey I'm 19 and a virgin also! I've always believed you can wait to have sex and still have great relatioships. ;) Normal.

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  • rockzor

    there is nothing wrong with it. no need to rush out and have sex. its much better if you wait and have your first time be with someone you truly cre about.

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  • tonsoffun300zx

    im 22 and i wish i was a virgin. well i think it's different for a girl and guy but, from a guys perspective once you open pandoras box it becomes a never ending search to continue having sex. but being a virgin is completly normal. it's a choice that is completly yours to make when you are good and ready.

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  • JonW

    Conpletely!

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  • Don't know if it's normal but I'm the same way. Enjoy life and don't rush things. When you feel ready and comfortable it'll happen. Don't be peer pressured into something you'll regret.

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  • zchristian

    Another of these...

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  • FinDuMonde

    I'm sorry, but I don't think still being a virgin at age 19 is normal or a good thing! By age 19, you should have lost your virginity long ago! I see it as kind of a sad and depressing thing, to be honest.

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  • marissachan

    just because teen mom is fucking everywhere doesn't mean every normal person loses their virginity as a teen.

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  • steven_mw

    I'm 21 and it's still a virgin.It's very normal.

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  • No, it's not normal, so let have sex

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  • Triple_A

    it's very normal,I'm a boy and if you want my opinion lose it just for your husband.

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  • laurabarker93

    perfectly normal! your time will come whether you are interested in sex or not. there is no rush to lose it, 50% of people lose their virginities while they are not ready or it was rushed or forced. do not worry about it:)

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  • alv1592

    This has been posted many times, and it's totally okay. I'm just like you in that department.

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  • xxMiss-Curiousxx

    I was 18 when I started going out with my boyfriend but i was 19 when i lost my virginity, we waited 8 months before we had sex we just did other stuff before hand until I felt comfortable enough and trusting enough of him to have sex. Loosing your virginity is about when you feel ready and comfortable with the right person there should be no pressure.

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  • Shy-Ann

    I waited until I was 27, so don't worry about it, it will happen when it's meant to happen!

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  • Cessypants

    It is normal.

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  • FreeWilly69

    You should of really started to have sex by now, you are like 19..

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  • roguebogey

    it's perfectly fine, but if you wait too long your vagina might close permanently. But you wont need to worry about that until your about 29 years old

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