Is it normal that i'm 25 and a virgin?
Hey there
I'm a girl of 25, I'm still a virgin. I think I look okay, I am not confident about my body, however everyone tells me I look very attractive and tend to get hit on a lot. I am shy and everything but I wouldn't consider myself an introvert in social situations, I have plenty of friends, including a lot of boys. I don't really feel especially shy around boys, however I seem to have this aura of unavailability. I also am not the type to walk up to a stranger and say hey, i think you're cute.
I never had many problems with mild flirting, and I've made out with several people and sometimes I was even the one to start it. I never had a real relationship though, and the idea of one scares me because I don't like to be tied down to a person.
I was really into this guy once but he basically started avoiding me after a first sort of date, saying he didn't want a relationship even though I never acted like I wanted one.
It never happened, I never really had anyone I felt close enough to go through with it. But as the days go by I feel more and more self conscious about it, to the point that I feel it may never happen. In an intimate situation I will most likely freeze and not know how to deal with it.
Is this normal?