First off, you're still so young. And there's nothing wrong with feeling around the interest shown towards you for something lasting. The point of going on a date is kind of like an informal interview, an experiment of chemistry. There's nothing wrong with eliminating the people who you don't feel compatible with, in fact you're showing maturity in being able to discern what you want.
You are alone because you haven't found that one person that you feel compelled towards seeing again and spending more time with. We all fall for people that don't reciprocate our interest, the challenge and reward is that moment when the feeling is mutual. You are right not to just be with someone for the sake of it, that's shallow and best to avoid, as it will only end in heartbreak for the person you are with.
Personal freedom is very under-rated I think. Make the most of it while you are young with reasonably less responsibilities. I know of alot of people out there approaching middle age who feel tied down and burdened by commitment. Use the time to travel and get to know yourself better. You are not wasting your youth while you are in an effort of soul searching, you will become a much fuller individual than those who have been in a long term relationship since an adolescent age.
Is it normal that I'm 22, pretty and never had a boyfriend?
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First off, you're still so young. And there's nothing wrong with feeling around the interest shown towards you for something lasting. The point of going on a date is kind of like an informal interview, an experiment of chemistry. There's nothing wrong with eliminating the people who you don't feel compatible with, in fact you're showing maturity in being able to discern what you want.
You are alone because you haven't found that one person that you feel compelled towards seeing again and spending more time with. We all fall for people that don't reciprocate our interest, the challenge and reward is that moment when the feeling is mutual. You are right not to just be with someone for the sake of it, that's shallow and best to avoid, as it will only end in heartbreak for the person you are with.
Personal freedom is very under-rated I think. Make the most of it while you are young with reasonably less responsibilities. I know of alot of people out there approaching middle age who feel tied down and burdened by commitment. Use the time to travel and get to know yourself better. You are not wasting your youth while you are in an effort of soul searching, you will become a much fuller individual than those who have been in a long term relationship since an adolescent age.
There is nothing wrong with you. You are normal.
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hitori
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Thank you so much!
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linchpin
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my pleasure.
all the best :)