Is it normal that i love the bad boy?

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I have been in a relationship for a long time. The guy is perfect. Everything a girl would want, but there is this boy at work who is the bad boy type. So beautiful. I know I'd never want a relationship with this guy yet I kissed him. I feel horrible. I was pulled into his bad boy image. It was a rush to hang out with him. I feel so self destructive in the sense that I betrayed my boyfriend. Is this normal?

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Based on 85 votes (59 yes)
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  • ruralfrights
    13 years ago

    You do have a relationship with him now that you've kissed. It would be surprising if you weren't in bed with h soon as kissing leads to other things, and quickly when you feel so attracted. You can control your urges if you see fit. Do you see fit? Is your relationship more important than this guy? No ifs ands or buts on that one. Only a black or white yes or no.

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  • osweettart
    13 years ago

    If the "bad boy image" draws you in, see if your boyfriend will play along with you once in awhile. Maybe your perfect guy mixing it up and acting like a tough guy will make those feelings go away and will improve your relationship by giving you something you desire. I completely agree with JessieLou89 in that DO NOT let that kiss happen again. It will only hurt your guy and will ruin something that sounds great.

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  • JuliusE
    13 years ago

    It just means your still immature. But at the same time it's probably ur bf's fault too for not being masculine enough. You can be masculine and not a "bad boy" but a responsible man who makes you feel very girly etc. This is so stereotypical for the 21 century. Everyones fucked up

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  • daydreamer394
    9 years ago

    How bad is bad?

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  • Etheredge92
    13 years ago

    it's normal. girls are often attracted to their polar opposites-the thrill of the unknown. be careful.

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  • sherry
    13 years ago

    Lose the bad boy. He will break your heart.

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  • Iblis
    13 years ago

    I think it is normal, but I highly do not approve of this. You should not cheat, I mean if you want to be with the 'bad boy' you must tell your current boyfriend that is over.

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  • florist
    13 years ago

    oh my god i know how u feel. cuz it's kinda happening to me too. i'm so sexually attracted to this "bad boy" so i guess that's normal

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  • snowangelss
    13 years ago

    I'm the same way,I love my bf more than anything but this one guy just turns me on like no other. I don't talk to the guy because I don't want to get pulled in, I know he would only hurt me and my boyfriend hates his guts.

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  • JessieLou89
    13 years ago

    Yeah you feel guilty which I'm not surprised.. Completely normal just don't do it again or you will lose the one you love for nothing

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