Is it normal that i love someone who i havent seen in over 4 years

theres this girl i met back when we were in elementary school we were best friends but i never told her how i truly felt about her but when we in 8th grade she moved from state and i lost all contact with her now im in the 12th grade and finally got in touch with her about three months ago but now she is going out with this other guy which she says she's in love with the problem is that i still love her but she doesn't know it but im going crazy cause i cant get her out of my head so what should i do?

Is It Normal?
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  • Move on.

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  • aww...you poor thing...im so sorry

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  • You are still "in love" with her BECAUSE you haven't seen her in four years! Familiarity breeds contempt .

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  • XD

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  • i was/am like that, truthfully you probably aren't in love with her. she has changed since you have known her and you are in love with what used to be. since i was 13 i was in this situation and it messed me up ever since. I honestly still think we can start a relationship again but really, after only a year you are a different person, you have new friends and new interests. you need to get over her, trust me, its a bitch but you can do it. Keep on keeping on.

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  • I wouldn't say move on but always keep ur head up though just be Friends with her and when or if she breaks up with him that's u chance to tell her the truth about ur feelings

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