Its a forbidden fruit you have yet to try. Of course the temptation is there. It'll especially be there whenever you get mad at your husband or when you feel like you're under appreciated by him; you start wondering "what if I was with the other guy? would it have been better?" Honestly, I think you need to stop torturing yourself and cut the other guy off completely. If you don't want to cut him off then fine, live in regret or severe curiosity. In all honesty, the only way to find out if its "real" or just the temptation is to indulge in even the most innocent way, and if nothing comes from it, then you need to move on with your life.
Is it normal that I love my friend sometimes more than my husband?
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Its a forbidden fruit you have yet to try. Of course the temptation is there. It'll especially be there whenever you get mad at your husband or when you feel like you're under appreciated by him; you start wondering "what if I was with the other guy? would it have been better?" Honestly, I think you need to stop torturing yourself and cut the other guy off completely. If you don't want to cut him off then fine, live in regret or severe curiosity. In all honesty, the only way to find out if its "real" or just the temptation is to indulge in even the most innocent way, and if nothing comes from it, then you need to move on with your life.