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a girl broke up with me after we dated for 2 years and i hate her but i cant stop thinking about her. its been 6 months and i still have dreams about her and today i came across a video of her and one of her new boyfriends f**kin and im pissed off about it.is this normal?
How in the world did you just stumble across a video of that? Also, in my opinion I don't think it's normal or healthy to make a video of someone having sex, its gross. It's normal to feel that way about her, but to "stumble across" something like that, you would have to be invading some personal boundaries and privacy. So yes and no to the whole is it normal thing.
Is this normal? Yes, or at least for you. For one thing, it sounds like you don't hate this girl at all, but instead are angry at her for ending your relationship. Those two emotions are easily confused. And two years is quite a while to date someone, so even after six months of being broken up, it is completely normal to still have feelings for this girl, and to still want to be with her. Now the unfortunate part is that this does not seem to be the same for her. She has moved on, she has found some one else, and she is getting on with her life without you. I have been there bro, and there are few things in life as difficult as that. But the sooner you accept that its over, that she doesn't want you anymore,the sooner you can move on (this is easier said than done of course).